HOW TO TRAIN “ONE-DIMENTIONAL BRAIN" KIDS TO BECOME CREATIVE?

Written by Miss Yellow

Long time ago, my sister asked me to fetch her eldest son from a tuition center, I stopped my flashy coupe right in front of him but he didn’t see me, then I called him he still didn’t “detect” I was right in front of him, at last one of his classmate padded his shoulder to ask him looking at me with just two feet away from him!

When he got into my car, this famous tigress EE started to roar, ‘My goodness sake, is it your eyes can only detect your mom’s car but all other cars become invisible?’

‘How about if your mom was inside my car just now and we got robbed just right in front of your nose, would you be able to witness what happen, how the robbers look like, what ‘s car plate number?’

‘Next time if I come to fetch you, if I stop the car right in front of you for more than one minute without your notice, I will leave!’

‘Always look and be alert of what’s around you!’

He learned, from that day onwards, he immediately noticed me when my car entered the driveway to his tuition center.

Yesterday, my son asked me when we were standing in the garden, ‘Mommy, what’s this brown thing on the ground?’

‘Look around, figure out yourself!’

‘I don’t know!’

‘Why you looked just that brown thing spot? If you look sideways if you couldn’t figure out, then you should look up, if upwards you still couldn’t find out anything, you look in lateral angle!’

He looked at me in blank, he didn’t know what I was talking until I showed him, ‘Now look up, do you see the pencil pine leaves? So this brown thing is the dead pine leaves dropped to the ground.’

Again I told him, ‘When you want to solve a problem or a clue, you shouldn’t look at a spot only, you should figure out from all possible directions, this will also make you a very creative person!’

My daughter would bring back her art class homework, e.g. a landscape painting, I would tell her to give additional colors to the ground; instead of just brown or green, also the sky can be more than blue and white depending on the time of a day.

It is important to open children’s perception of “other possibilities” to make them creative, training their brain to solve and figure out things. It will be our Malaysian parents’ additional job to integrate creative education to our kids when our education system is based on memorizing and spoon-feeding knowledge.

CHILDREN WERE WASTING FOODS ON PLATES!

Was it caused by parents’ fault or was is just another formed bad eating habit?

Written by Money Tai Tai

When you invited guests for your dinner, after you prepared, cooked and sweated for over an hour, the foods served on certain plates were hardly touched, immediately you would think either the foods that you cooked were not nice enough that’s why the little guests couldn’t "swallow" your foods or you would suspect that the foods you prepared were not as good as what their parents used to cook for them.

Either one of the suspicions was not good, because your guests were unaware they were indirectly teaching their kids a bad eating habit of wasting foods, or secretly they actually felt so glad that their children didn’t like other people’s cooked foods but only appreciate their own cooking.

My parents lived through the Second World War, when I saw my son hated egg, I would tell him, ‘Look son! Do you know that when your grandpa was around your age, he would have to lick the egg shell after his dad finished eating eggs?’ But my son merely looked at my eyes without any emotion; he couldn’t fathom how poor people lived without eye witnessing.

That’s why my dad said, ‘Once people who lived through Second World War have died, younger generations will soon forget the suffering of World War, that’s when the Third World War will begin.’ He also said that his pets are all so smart because they never shit inside the house compound; he said “smart” countries would not fight (would not shit) in their own countries (in own house) but in other third world countries (outside)!

My dad suffered so much during Second World War, his dad and his two siblings died, thus he never has the habit of wasting foods, Malaysians are lucky we have plentiful of meats available compared to mainland China, so whenever he saw his grandkids wasting foods he would give them a lecture, ‘You take whatever you can finish.’ And he didn’t like when they finished their foods yet with some meats still stick on the bones.

I would add, 'Poor kids not even have to lick the egg shells but also chew the bones!'

Once I ate out with an old rich uncle, after I finished my foods (I actually not realizing he was observing my eating habit), he told me that he hated the most when he had to pay money to invite guests and they would order the most expensive drinks and foods yet they didn’t finish the foods, even his pets at home couldn’t eat such salty foods! He added if they could finish eating the expensive meal that they ordered by themselves, then he would have nothing to complain, he said he could afford to buy expensive drinks and foods for his friends and their kids’, but he couldn’t tolerate to see those wasted foods on the table which could feed so many poor kids in poor countries.

In short, in a restaurant when you see excess and unfinished foods displaying on a table after those guests left, actually the situation wouldn’t convince many people that those just left guests were rich, but merely showed that they were extravagant, ignorant (not being well taught) and “show-off kind” of people.

WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF A MOTHER BAD MOUTHING OF SOMEBODY

Her innocent teenager-kid will be the direct reflection!

Written by Miss Yellow

Once somebody very close to me asked me, ‘Have you ever experienced that if your parents got very angry with one of their friends, and it happened that you have overheard the reasons, ended you will not like that parents’ friend for a long time?’

I replied, ‘Yes.'

Thus, we must have discreet, as a woman we can’t tell EVERYTHING negative HAPPENED to our husband or children, especially don’t polluted the children’s half innocence minds when they are still immature and before they can make fair judgment of right and wrong!

In old days we would try to avoid that “enemy” of our parents but these days, teenagers would act differently, they are more daring and they would issue provocative or rude remarks to their parents' "enemy", so the best channel for these teenagers to out lash their angers is through facebook. By giving indirect hints to their parents’ “enemy” (but on the surface they are all friends) that they don’t like them, that’s why facebook doesn’t allow kids under 18 to use it, many teenagers’ parents probably never have realized but leave alone their teenagers writing freely on the facebook screen.

When parents brought their teenagers to see me, in front of their parents they would act like lambs as polite as always, as an experienced teacher, I just need to check if the girl has a facebook, by checking how many friends a teenager has, how she wrote remarks on screens, and how she reacted to their friends’ remarks, I could almost guess her character, general nature and true face.

When we adults having problems or having unpleasant arguments over some misunderstanding with friends or business associates, we have to make sure the process was not being witnessed and overheard by our half-grown up kids, or else if they said something mean or write something about our friends in a sarcastic way, we might not be in aware of what have happened. As teenagers most often are not mature enough to handle adults’ world of complicated human relationships, adults’ side problem might have been solved long ago diplomatically with big hearts, yet the innocence teenagers still carrying grudges with parents’ friend, as “big” forgiveness is not an easy virtue for immature teenagers to handle yet.

In old days, Chinawomen wouldn’t bring their husbands out to meet their friends, but in modern days, good couples are usually looking like a twin. Men are more straight forward, if one’s wife hold grudges behind her particular friend or sibling, he would watch out her particular friend or sister-in-law’s any wrong words, problem and doings, from there he would find a way to directly give her “a slap” out of the blue.

So, who would be more embarrassed after all, when the cat came out of the pocket, your friend or sister would be questioning herself, ‘Why someone she didn’t know so well would “hold grudges” on her yet the person who “slapped her” is your husband!’

We have to be very genuine to friends and siblings, if there is any misunderstanding, we must immediately confront and talk over the things, if you make mistakes, then you have to apologize. From my past experience to help people dealing with this kind of cases, I learned that in this Chinamen and Chinawomen infested society, for any of them to give an apology to someone seemingly like almost impossible; so when someone gave you an apology she must have a very Ang Mo character and mind, you should take it gladly with a big heart.

WHAT YOU HAVE TO WATCH OUT BEFORE GETTING SERIOUS WITH A MAN OR GIRL!

If you think of getting married without many unbearable future problems with your spouse..

Written by Miss Yellow

A year ago, when my car got hit from behind by an absent minded woman, I was told off by Mr. Money that if I could get my insurance money refunded fully then he would use my sir name “Yellow”, and now a year later the insurance money refunded was almost a hundred ringgit more than RM1800. I remember I paid the repairing money to the mechanic from my own savings (Ang Bow given by my old folks’ 50th anniversary) as Mr. Money decided he was not going to pay for the “very expensive” repairing bill. Even after a year now, he and someone related to him still asked me the same question, “Why you have to pay the mechanic first, when my (or my so an so’s (my wife’s)) car being knocked from behind, my mechanic would handle everything, and I (she) didn't need to pay any cash to the mechanic first and I (she) would get refunded quickly."

I angrily retorted, “Dub …..you and your so and so’s wife was holding first class insurance, of course after the accident, the mechanic would handle everything, but the car you let me drive was insured with the third class insurance!” Now I understand why my son is so stupid, because even if I kept repeating the same issue, still they couldn’t understand things explained to them. Such third class insurance’s rules are implemented all over Malaysia, when they are not the king to be able to change laws and rules, the poor wife or (someone with bad fate) would be subjected under verbal accuse and abuse.

For more than 9 months, I paid to the mechanic who didn’t do anything to claim to my insurance until I wrote two complain emails to KL Kurnia insurance company. When the issue got to the big boss, I really appreciated them to put my case into a priority claim case, yet still I heard some negative "barking" remarks like, “I think they have already claimed the money for themselves, I think they just wanted to waste your time, they deliberately kept delaying the procedures with all sorts of excuses and hard time given to you, I don’t think they want to pay you and I don’t think you are going to claim any money eventually!”

As Miss Yellow, rascals and bullies could cheat me but they won’t be able to bully me forever, I replied them, “Even though I am not a lawyer, or professionals like a doctor and engineer but at least I did earn my bachelor degree with an honor. So what the use of accepting higher education but not using it when crises happened? If someone hit me from behind if I didn’t apply abrupt brake, that’s for sure not my fault, if Malaysia still is a country with laws, then for sure I could get back my money!” And I stood my point amongst those Chinamen discouraging satire words, I got my insurance claim recovered. If they really don't trust this country Malaysia, then why the minute their "Chinawoman" mum asked them to return from overseas, they would follow the 'empress orders"!

I think if the highly educated Malaysians (worst they were educated overseas yet they could be so negative) who don't want to spend their times writing complain emails to the authorities but just thought and gossiped of something negative to their as useless negative friends, so who would know their problems?

These days I never trust a rascal’s promises anymore after being cheated by so many rascals, even when I sold off my businesses, with the white and black papers, someone could still cheat me, so don’t tell me all those bluffed promises without any black and white. If you open your eyes big and wide, and with your 6th sense turns on, you will find there are more rascals and bullies than genuine people around us.

I couldn’t concentrate reading anymore thick books and nobles after first baby born; from there I began to read some Taiwanese’s paperback “Mills and Booms” romance books. Not many people realize that this genre of Taiwanese romance that could par up with western romance book in depicting sex and love, which can be easily found and rented from major towns’ books rental store. I also think that adults should watch out their teenager-boys if they go this kind of rental store without your accompaniment, tell you a secret…. There are plentiful of xxx-cartoon books for rent, once out of curiosity I rent some to bring home reading, after I flicked through few pages, I was laughing so loudly, I thought I wasted my money but it was an eye opening for me, although it was just a cartoon book, different sexual acts were drawn explicitly clear and “creative” by the Japanese cartoonists with Mandarin translations. I even wondered why the authority didn't give a bar on this genre of cartoon books? I should be glad that this genre of xxx cartoons or movies could never entice me because I could draw pleasure from other form of hobbies. My professor used to tell me this, “Why American kids are so absorbed in sex? Because it is the easiest way to derive pleasure, once they experienced sex, they wouldn’t want to pursue a good hobby anymore, as hobbies required hard work, discipline , good EQ, IQ and talent during the course of pursuing, as it could be years to learn a good hobby up to a master level.”

Not all XXX Taiwanese romance are bad, some I even learned something that I was never being taught by my old fashion old folks. There was an example in a romance, the writer advised that when girls met a desired man, there are few DON’Ts.

1. Don’t “chase” immediately, you must “pause” yourself. She said these days good and rich modern men are in aware that they are the rare species, they sense of self-protection is very high too. They would reject the girl who came too strong to them.

2. Don’t “blind” yourself. You must look carefully if he is too short, too ugly or too fat, in short you must watch out for suitable outer features that par up with yours. Because if he is too short, soon after you married him, you would hear lots of unnecessary gossips, humiliation, insults and mocking trailing behind you when you walk out of a kopitiam!

3. Don’t “Deafen” yourself. You must have your wide spy networks. Check if he was married before, if he is a compulsive cheater who has rogue tongue, or actually he already tried to set up on you by approaching your circle of family friends or siblings to create his weasel-claim version of “rich and success stories” to impress you, if he has bad habits like gambling, partying often until 3:30am (bar closed at 2am, he would go eating super until 3am and spent 30 minutes to reach home). You must check if he has any credit card (make sure he is the original card holder not the supplementary card holder!) These days, Malaysian banks won’t issue any credit card to man who has bad debts and bad payments records. Check if he owes any debts to his family members, or he has such “mercy soft heart” that he would loan his money to his "needy and poor" friends as long as they hold “his ball”! Check if he changes his job after every few years or frequently. You must check his family background: If his mum is the first wife and only wife? Or if his dad has two wives, and his mum is the second wife, then you have to put a stop on this man. If he is the second wife’s son, his excuse was his dad’s first wife couldn’t produce any son or kid, that’s why his dad looking for a second wife that’s his mum, then you have to be very careful that if you get married to him, if anything doesn’t please him, e.g. to produce as many kids as he desires, you will face the “high risk” that he will find excuses (exactly like his dad did to his first wife) for himself to look for a second one. There were also cases when “a dad” looking for a mistress, there is a “high risk” that one of his sons will follow his dad’s footsteps.

For me I think modern highly educated girls should never married to a member from the very traditional Chinese family background or else she will suffer.  The Chinamen and “Chinawomen” are always keen in asking their kids and siblings to get married off when coming to late twenties and early thirties, but they were never too good in “polishing up” their own son and brother or taking a good look over “a mirror” to see if they are good enough for a good girl too? They wished their son or brother could find a “princess” yet “the loser” doesn’t even have a steady job, no car, no credit card due to bad banks payments and credits, or stupid enough to act as someone’s bank guarantor, no house, worst the loser owes the family members ton of bad debts, etc. I call these kinds of selfish old folks and siblings as simply “accessories” to bad marriage. So they got their “loser” son or brother to get married, he would end up have at least a “descendent” (a SON, not girl for this kind of Chinaman-family) is the prime factor and the most important thing in life? Or they thought childishly that if their old useless bachelor son or sibling after getting married he would learn to behave and settle down? Were they thinking too naïve or simply wanting to escape the responsibility as Chinese always thinks that to marry off a single member at home will ease them from a responsibility, but actually that single lady or sister never even asked them for a dime to live by her own! The main problem of these “Chinamen and Chinawomen” is caused by somewhere in their brain is being blocked from awakening and enlightening, thus they could selfishly destroying someone’s better future, happier and healthy life-styles just for their own goods, stuck-up believes and thoughts.

What is called bad marriage? If you get married to a man as followed, you are actually not far from reaching a lawyer’s office for a divorce or you are actually being "nailed by all your narrow-minded members in a marriage jail". In Chinamen infested society, most Chinamen will be always standing in a win-win situation, no matter how bad they treat their wives, some "Chinawomen" will always stand by those men's side to go against a prolonged poorly bullied woman. For the Chinamen: The first wife is just used as “to get married” to show his friends and family members that finally he has “found a wife” at his “old age”, but she merely was also used by him as a child bearing machine, when she only likes to produce a son, he will keep pestering and pressuring her to bear more sons yet he doesn’t have that financial ability to support so many kids; the minute he knows that his wife “stop production” he starts to think of a potential target who will be willing to act as a secret No. 2; he will never care if the first wife is being "sentence to jail" by him in a "marriage graveyard"; she will hardly see her husband, may be once a month or year with monthly financial support reaching her on and off inconsistently that will get her nerve nervous; besides she is never allocated with one goal consistent or regular allowance from her husband she also has to worry when her husband will be fired by his current contracted boss. (Always a problemnatic unreliable husband also is not good and unreliable in his professional arena too) After only sold off all her past business empire that built by her during her most “productive years” that was before she got married, then only she found out by accident that her husband is a “tin-kosong” (an empty shell); he would never share “what’s going out there with her”, he will say, “You jiyuan ner nen don’t need to know too much”, he is contradicting himself, when he initially looked for a wife, he wanted a highly educated wife, yet after she married him, he “cold-storage” her, so what for he wastes a “knowledgeable or helpful resources” of this society by destroying her good and reputed career? He always thinks too highly of himself: He always counting eggs before chickens and never a single thing that he managed were successful instead he blamed economic or inflations better than a famous evangelist, so his wife tolerated and trying to be an understanding wife, this will go on for a decade or two, but time flies, after twenty years he will give her excuses to her that he will by then getting old, “Hmm… these days I can’t fight with those young engineers anymore…. But they are not experience than me but how can….!” Another excuse he gives to her again that can worry and give her more white hairs. He never admits that he is unable, he is not getting as rich as some contractors who are even not an engineer and who even didn’t have chance to attend a university. If his wife tells him,

“Look, my sisters will be going to Paris for holidays this coming Dec.” He will either pretend not listening or he will reply her, “Who asks you doesn’t have good fate like them?”

“Aren’t you a Jesus believer, why now you tell me there is good and bad fate?”

“You jiyuan ner nen talk too much, that’s why I don’t like to come back home often.”

In short, the first wife never can talk too much and express too much of her feelings to her Chinaman-husband, she will be always a lone-wolf. If she asks her husband for extra money to meet month end due, he will scold her, “Why you are such a big spender?” He is not in aware the goods almost double the price after every 10 years, he is merely living in his 80s and think 80s of what his happiest college days life and the way of living, carefree and without any responsibility.

His first wife will never ask him for money for travelling during any of the kids’ school holidays because she is afraid that he can’t afford it yet for his own face’s sake, he ends up borrowing money from his friends for his wife’s overseas travelling.

And worst of all, this kind of husband is the killer for a wife’s professional career, he would kindly tell her to quit her job to move and dwell in a new city, yet upon reaching a new city, he never lifts a single finger to build a home with her and re-path her a new career, after trying her ways around to seek for a new career in a new city, with many expensive advertisements published yet frustrated enough she finally quits with diminished self-esteem, he actually feel very happy to hear what have happened to her.

So, don’t you think as a mother, don’t you need to teach your pretty and highly educated daughters how to look for an as equally good husband? I will advise mothers to teach your children how to look for their spouse since young days as a part of family education, (lest that he brings home a girl that you don't like, because if you don't teach him, he won't know what's your expectation) always remember to teach your son that he better has 4 or 5Cs (can COOK) before planning to look for a girlfriend instead if expecting him to look for a rich girl expecting him to act as a giccolo or control freak and always remember to teach your daughter that she better has 4 or 5Cs too, just in case she is an introvert good girl who doesn’t know how to socialize in order to fish a good boyfriend, if the girls reaching 35 years old, I will not advise single girls to get married anymore, even if you have money, the gap between you and your new born kids will be too wide and at older age, actually you will lose your vitality to look after an overactive babies and infants.

I have seemed enough rich and older bachelors, they are the indecisive group of men about which girls to get married, these men know that they are fully loaded, respected in their professional arenas, no obvious bad habits except they are really indecisive, there are many girls chasing after them, yet they will only choose one that are young, same highly professional and daring enough to jump to their beds! Usually the minute you hear that they were married, soon after 7 or 8 months they would have a baby born. The "older unmarried eligible bachelors" sure WON’T look for an older lady to get married, if they do, that mean they actually want the “somebody” or “somebody’s daughter” kind of lady yet he won’t be able to handle her fames or provide her the same financial backup, the truth is he is actually a “conman” in disguise, it happened to a very famous Taiwanese talk show star to many other unfortunate, unlucky and innocence women.

SAD STORIES OF A NAUGHTY STUDENT

Dog luck invisible creepy thief never got caught but the visible naughty student is frequently being condemned in school
http://www.bintulu.org/news/2008/12/12/ting-unlocked-sjk-chung-hua-no2.php

Written by Mrs. Money


In 2040, the world technology becomes so advance that people can borrow “story books” from public library in an ultra thin “old age laptop” dubbed as A4.

Although the world has become so advance but people’s moral standard has become so corrupted. New- age people have to carry their A4s everywhere they go, if they leave it at home without alarm, this A4 always becomes the prime target for thieves.

As stealing becomes so frequent that library authority will not accept penalty fees but a replacement of any used A4 is required.

There is an absent minded scientist leaves his A4 at home got stolen, as he doesn’t own any cheap used A4, he offers to pay the library but his money has gotten rejected.

Soon policeman comes to his house, give him warning it is a compulsory to fix an alarm in his house, the reason is in this modern era thieves have become so smart that police can’t catch them, so their duty is not required to catch nasty creepy invisible thieves but merely to keep an eyes on civilians if they can’t take care of their own properties, belongings and public properties, they will be penalized! (In short, creepy thieves are encouraged to steal)

The police beat the famous scientist as he can’t produce any used A4 to the library. On the next day the police come asking for used A4 again, the man can’t produce it so he “eats the rattan” (beat) again. On the third day, the scientist’s annoyed old mom advised him to return the library an expensive version of A4 (4X more expensive version) to solve the problem.
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In old days’ Chinese primary schools, if a student’s belonging was stolen, even if the teacher was not able to catch the thief, but all the students would be warned and lectured. But it is so disappointing that when my son borrowed the library book and left it in his drawer overnight, the reason he told me because he was worried if he took it home his sister might tear it accidentally. The next day he found the book was lost thus he couldn’t return the book to the teacher, he told me he paid RM5 to the teacher.

I thought the problem was solved, but next day his class monitor told me my son got canned by the teacher yesterday because his library book got lost. The same morning my kind friend who popped in my son’s class to ensure that he was alright, but who knew the class monitor was also complaining to her that how my son’s library book got missing, and she told her that my son has to pay RM5 penalty. So my friend called me, I replied her, “Ya, ya, ya, the monitor already told me this morning when I reached the class, but yesterday my son told me he paid the teacher RM5 already!”

Again, on the next morning, the monitor nagged the same thing on me again, I got so annoyed, I told her off, “Isn’t that he paid the money already? You should ask your teacher to catch the thief instead of keep asking for the money. As the book got stolen only within 18 hours, the thief could be the student who was the last one who left the class or the first one who reached the class in the morning! But how can your teacher never mention to catch the creepy invisible thief but instead of a visible naughty boy!”

I cursed while I left the class then a teacher overheard it, I told him exactly of what I told to the monitor. After school, first time my son told me he got canned by the teacher again. So I asked him, “Did teacher F try to catch the thief in your class?”

He replied, “No. But the teacher who canned me asked me must bring a used book from our home to replace the lost book.”

I got mad and nagged again, “Why? You have paid that RM5, and we don’t have that kind of cheap book at home! Why you have to pay money and replace a lost book at the same time?”

So I asked my boy to bring a very expensive Chinese encyclopedia about human body to replace the lost cheap book. The canning eventually stops, but everyday his classmate still tell me how naughty my boy is, I really got annoyed, so Mr. Money told me, if next time those nosy kids annoy me again, I should tell them, “Naughty boy still behaves a lot better than those running loose creepy thieves in your class!”

I did bring this matter to the discipline teacher, she told me, “No, it is impossible to catch the thieves in school, these days kids are so cunning. The other day, I let them used two cans of ink, but at the end of the class, both cans of ink were missing and nobody admitted stealing!” Obviously, the stealing case was taken lightly by the teacher, as two cans of ink don’t cost much!!!

Thefts are encouraged just because these teachers are not smart enough to catch them? Once students’ belongings got stolen, teachers only warned the victimized students to keep their own belongings properly, in my son case he got canned but never once any teacher mentions in his class, “Who steals his book?” The invisible thief never was condemned but instead the victimized student got canned, is this new kind of Chinese education practice and moral teaching in primary school right here in Sarawak state?

This is Mr. Money’s choice of new era Chinese education and moral teaching but definitely it is not my choice if I have strong financial power. I was a teacher too, when such case of theft occurred, students knew that I screamed and shouted so madly, thus never ever in their existing years stealing case happened again, until they were gone, a new batch appeared an invisible rascal conducted stealing again, I screamed and shouted so madly again, it ceased again until I quitted my job!

Note: Eventually after a week, my son classmate told me RM5 was returned to my son by his teacher but my son never told me about it.

HELP ... LITTLE COLOUR WOLF AT HOME!

Written by Mrs. Money

“Help! Help! Little color Wolf!” Mr. Money looked around wondering what I was screaming until he saw his seven years old son looking at him cheekily.
“What are you doing?” He questioned his son sternly.
“Nothing!” He twinkled his shinning eyes like a little kitty.

“I tell daddy to chop your hands if you touch me here and there again!” I threatened him.

It’s time for sexual education to this little color wolf! When he started to show such curiousity in sex? I remember it started almost two years ago, the little color wolf was sitting at the back of the car with his cousin, suddenly his 17 years old cousin pulled out few pieces of torn papers out of his bag pack and she laughed while showing her mom on the front wheel. They were waiting for me in the car, so the minute I got into the car, my sister laughed, “You don’t need to worry your son will turn into a gay in the future.”
“Why?”
“Look at these …” She then showed me all those semi-naked female figures from magazines perfumes advertising pages.
“Oh my XYZ&*! Nobody taught him this, I was so busy in the oil town office and when he did that by himself? He packed these inside his bag pack ready to bring these to Kuching?!”

I got quite many friends confided in me about their kids, e.g. when one of them reached 10 years old, she would cut naked girls pictures and hide everywhere, and her mom would wait when she slept, then she would search for them and took them away. Some kids would wait when their moms went to work; they would go into their mommies’ bedroom to read those women magazines that their mommies forbid them to read. Some top students of a certain famous secondary school would hide in a classmate’s house to watch blue films while those female classmates who followed them would use pillows to cover their faces, and these kids I knew of were actually very active in their church youth fellowship and their holy parents never would know that “I know what their kids were doing last night!” The more those mommies forbid them to see the more curious they got.

For more than 20 years in my profession, I seem too many little growing kids to teenagers then until they went to study in overseas, most of the time our Asian kids just shy off when coming to subjects regarding sex, even just mentioned the word SEX.

Recently when my son showed my cousin an excerpt, “Sex during pregnancy” I was shocked of how he could burrow into my personal belonging, particularly picked and read those pregnancy magazines as these articles are like rubbish waited to get chopped out!

“It’s time to buy him THE HUMAN BODY from Popular!” I told my cousin.
“Yeah!” She laughed

I think my eldest sisters got the most successful sexual education for her kids, she made them read the human body during their “curious age”, I bet her kids have no problem to pursue medicine in the future!

“Hey kids, now here with the book THE HUMAN BODY, it got so many naked pictures for you to see, you can see it everyday, read how human beings propagate! Spell words of every parts of any male or female human body if you want!”

Once they finished reading the book, my sister asked her kids questions then asked them to find from internet how to make a test tube baby. My sister told me how the ways she gave her kids sexual education even before I was married, that should be more than 10 years ago.

I noticed later that her kids were acting coolly or having very high EQ when facing sexual subjects not like so many other teenagers that I knew of would shy off as hypocrites, but with their friends they were actually watching blue films.

http://www.amazon.com/Human-Body-Book-DVD/dp/0756628652

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Wireless Obsessions

Written by Mrs. Money

School holidays, many parents didn’t aware their devilish kids hacked other users’ lines to get in internet or hacked into other users’ mails. When they are too carefree they would use their HP to take their “naked little brother” to send their girlfriends, and many teenage girls thought that it’s an intimate treasured photo, they didn’t realize it’s an insult for them. When a boy thinks that a girl is very “hiaw” he can come to an extend sending a x-rated photo or sex toy to such girl, I learned it from a male friend when I studied in USA, he told me; “…………… My friend asked me to go in a sex toys shop bought a toy for his girlfriend in Malaysia, he told me that she needs it when he is not around her!”


Any invented communication tools involving in wireless transmissions or aliens’ transmission; our earthy human beings would get obsessed so badly. Even my young monsters at home could be easily obsessed, early morning one of them would switch on the TV herself (now dared enough to challenge mommy’s “NO”) and the other one would take up my HP to figure out games by himself, and everyday my HP battery is running low quickly.

Youngsters would get obsessed to internet activities; old folks would get obsessed with TV soap operas and kids with computer games.


My time to “conditioned” kids: “How could you control by a TV (HP games)? A living thing controlled by a non-living toy! Useless you! Why can’t you control yourself not being controlled by a toy?”

They both did improve slightly after the brain-washing, but I could see their rebellious scintillating from their eyes, I don’t mind they watch their TV and play their games to par up with their era, as long as they are willing to go to nursery, willing to eat their dinner and willing to take shower and sleep on time.

I think high tech modern tools and toys are like devils’ inventions, anytime ready to recruit our mankind as their disciples. These inventions attracted especially to youngsters and most youngsters’ brains could automatically and instinctively compatible utilizing the new inventions efficiently.


Actually, my kind of brain-washing and conditioning is good to control kids being grown up too materialistic.

FIVE YEARS OLD MONSTER AT HOME!

She is no different from prehistoric cavemen, my house is just another Niah Caves but in Kuching!

Written by Mrs. Money



She is still in an age with highest subconscious; soon she will get kicked out from the Garden of Eden!

What a joke if I tell you that God could be a female figure when "et" converted to a physical being in order to live in Garden of Eden. Eve might listen to God’s word if "et" was a male figure and our religious believes would be entirely different. It's just a joke, actually God should be a male figure according to my bible research, but Eve even could disobey her "heavenly father" but rather chose to believe a snake possessed by a devil, Eve had not gained worldly wisdom before she got kicked out from Garden of Eden yet she already got that rebellious defected genes in her.

Eve rather listened to a snake than God, the girl chose to listen the big bad wolf rather than her mom and now my little five years girl never listens to me, when I cooked rice, she wanted noodles, when I gave her milk she wanted oat meal,, when I gave her coke she wanted Ribena and when I gave her sundae she wanted ice-cream cone. When I asked her to return her toys to the basket after she played but she would deliberately dump them under her bed and love to cut the papers and stuck them everywhere and I would clean the house for more than 5 times a day. When I bought her to shower, she would lock the door and I would scream angrily because she pour water into all the bottles of shampoo and body shampoo, anything with bubbles is her favorite. She only behaved if I told her, “Your daddy is coming back home today, so don’t mess up the house.” Either Odysseys behavior revealed on her or she simply got certain rebellious defected genes inherited from Eve!

Many friends asked me should they beat their daughters with a rattan, as laws in USA and Singapore, children shouldn’t be canned. Personally I think they should be canned but not abused. I am expecting lots of social problem in the coming twenty years with children not being canned when they were young.

In the highest subconscious age of 3 to 5, they are half stupid half smart, half conscious half no cognitive awareness and half devil half angel. When they turned into annoying monsters insisted an expensive toy from their poor mommies, due to the laws said “No canning”, so no matter how their mommies tried to cool down the monsters they insisted wanted their respective toys, in front of many onlookers soon their mommies gave way, little monsters won their wars.

After 20 years later, someone offering “yes” kids some drugs, they never learned conditionally of such word called “no” and “pains and rejections” in their subconscious realm, their wills cum wise brains struggling to control their bad actions, drugs and other compulsive bad habits easily become their adult toys!

In an adverse, if mommies said “no” to little monsters, and gave them some painful canning, mommies won their wars. Their little monsters adopted conditioned-learning into their subconscious realm. Twenty years later their friends ask them, “Happy hours. Let’s go looking for pros!” Suddenly their fierce mommies’ face emerged to give them some hesitations and thinking, they can easily let their wise brain and wills under controlled before their bad actions, as they were being taught since young days.

Divorced parents with kids of 3 to 5 will bring them silent hurts in their subconscious realm. I witnessed myself a rich couple who divorced with a daughter at 2 and another around 4. 10 years later the 14 years old girl told me, “I want to be a lesbian when I grow up.” Her behavior wise is really recluse and weird though I really think that she will turn into a very pretty girl yet she behaves with no confidence postures and acts. Their divorced rich dad and pretty mom s both found their respective partners and left the kids to their grandma. However, her younger sister acted very normal and wise. It’s very painful when I think of these two lovely girls, I just pray that nothing bad will happen to them of wherever they are now.

“HELPFUL” MEN AND THEIR GROWN UP DAUGHTERS

Written by Mrs. Money


They are like a group of pet lovers, who would acquire a Persian cat to propagate kitties or Husky bitch to propagate puppies but these pets are locked in a cage above 80 degree F with bad ventilation!


There is a group of “very helpful role model” not that wealthy married men living in our community, who usually leave their families in another city to enable their children to attend particular branded schools that they wished to attend. Or in certain cases, there is a good excuse to leave them twenty four out of thirty days in a month alone again living a carefree bachelor life, as in their shared dictionary with their old grandpa saying that the role for a wife is to take care of a family and children, thus a wife and kids are acting like a barge towed behind a tug boat!

These guys would be so helpful to their relatives, friends, churches, political parties, associations and clans. Only after they finished “all” their helps to others, then they began to remember that they got some kids at home with a wife. So he began to feel very guilty, he would rush home the most once or twice a month to pamper and fulfill their kids and wives for two or three days. Everyone of their friends and friends would think that they are the good men as they work hard, didn’t gamble, didn’t look for a mistress and some of them even came to an extend to study religious courses as they are so free without any direct parenting duty involved.

Actually this is the pattern of traditional good married men but when they live in this modern era, they are actually disappointing men for modern thinking highly educated overseas graduated wives and loser-dads for their grown up new age daughters. This kind of traditional men actually are silent selfish controllers, usually they leave their poor wives juggling alone like a single mother without any assisting maid and with the limited monthly household allowance given to manage a family (They would never give their entire salary to their wives to manage, indirectly created unconfident wives as they doubt their hubbies don’t earn much money as given family expenses are so limited) they wouldn’t care if their wives are working or not, whether if their wives still have their respective career ambitions, sometimes they would be very discouraging to their tired overstressed working wives until their wives quit working, “Even you work so hard, but your yearly salary won’t be earning more than my monthly salary!” Their wives hence never know what is called pocket money, a practice of Hong Kong married men, who would give their wives monthly household expenses and in additional specific pocket money either their wives work or not. Pocket money hence became a forever history which their wives’ parents would give them during their studying years and sojourns. Their educated modern wives suddenly got such awakening that their old folks are the greatest beings in this world rather than their hubbies who make them felt they were being cheated and buried in a marriage graveyard.

I heard some older ladies whose old husbands ended staying with their mistresses and children, making such hissing angry remark, “I hated my husband is because he controlled me tactically, he would go out with me paid everything I wanted to buy, though I never worried about what to dress, what to eat or where to travel, but he never gave me any single dime as pocket money, when I wanted to invite my friend for a cup of tea, I also didn’t have money, some friends might think that I was proud as I never wanted to go out with them, but nobody knew that I was penniless!”

These stuck-up dads don’t know a modern term called modern day parenting, their thoughts are very traditional though they can be very open-minded too (they would leave alone their children and wives freedom to do what they want when he is not with them) ….. In short they love to take all advantages of what they wanted to but leaving their silent unhappy wives to carry the sole modern day parenting duty. They think that they go out to work to earn money, with a limited amount they gave their wives in exchanged for their wives’ parenting duty, they would usually made a telephone call to their wives and they love to do that right in front of all their friends to show people that they are a good husband and a good daddy.

These men would have extra money to travel all over the world, donating to their associations or schools, driving a posh car and even flashing themselves in uptown social activities yet nobody has seem their wives or children appearing beside them, they would always made such excuses, “She is in Kuching with young children still schooling, thus I can’t bring her.” Their wives usually would drive a very old troubled car, usually a used unwanted car of their brothers or friends, even if their wives drive a brand new car, their other as traditional brothers would question their sister-in-law, “Why you drive a brand new car? I am richer than your husband, but my wife is still driving a used car!”

Other lady friends of these men also seldom met their wives as they can’t present their simple wives who didn’t have enough money to dress up themselves and to make friends with other lady friends ….. They simply didn’t know that their wives also need money to make friends too.

These men never learned that neglecting their own highly disciplined church-going-daughters at home in this modern era only one day might risk their hard earned reputation, they didn’t know their carefree behaviors with all responsible dump to their wives, their schools and their churches might be earning them shames. It will be too late when they get informed that their daughters are detained in China or Korean airport due to drugs trafficking, and they still caressing their lushly hair quite definite that they never applied any passport for their grown up daughters, “No. She never has a passport, how could she end up in China!”

They don’t know that their grown up daughters need a daddy to talk and confide to when they can’t talk to their respective moms (Odysseys behavior) and to guide them to look for a boyfriend perhaps. They didn’t aware that their unhappy neglected attention deprived daughters by a daddy might end up meeting stranger men in internet, potential involvement in different kind of scandals and risk social security.

In other serious cases, their tired, lonely angry wives even involved in scandals with internet lovers unknown to them. These men didn’t know that there are a larger numbers of con-men, felonies and criminals with all kinds of identities throwing out fishing hooks or waiting beside their computers to use their lonely, angry, neglected daughters and wives for their different criminal purposes.

Gawai got many wedding going on, so such silly men would loan their luxury cars to their relative’s friends for wedding or some senseless men would travel to JB for golfing! During Gawai holiday yet they were not returning home to see their wives and daughters, but who got time being helpful to take a whole car full of ladies from their church activities to go for dinners and visiting tourist attraction centers but got no time to return home to bring their kids for a movie, dinner or sit-down chat. Or even if they returned home a few days after Gawai New Year, due to they were partying late deprived of sleep, so when they returned home readily to get sick but instead they would blame their wives of “overwhelming” them, indirectly wanted their wives to feel guilty to avoid their wives from “interrogating” them!

If you have senseless unwise married male friends with any of the above symptoms, please email this article to show them …. But I know 99% of these men’s hobby is not reading!!!!

http://webmastermalaysia.com/news-announcements/9468-latest-internet-scam-list.html

http://themalaysianlife.blogspot.com/2009/02/top-5-internet-scams.html

http://www.consumerfraudreporting.org/reporting.php

What My Mom Should Have Taught and Told me?

Written by Mrs. Money

Continued from last publish

How to clean a cup or a glass?

Are you kidding me? .... One of such simple chaos

One of my most memorable things kept in me was I once taught my deceased uncle how to wash coffee mugs. Periodically my aunty would prepare afternoon teas for their visiting nieces (many nieces), and once we left my uncle would wash those cups. But on the next afternoon tea moment, I always saw lipstick stains on the mugs, secretly I would wipe the stains away, this went on for ages, finally one day I followed him to the kitchen pretended talking to him while he washed his mugs, then I showed him the lipstains remained over his washed mugs and I taught him how to wash a cofee mug. He happily accepted my teaching, but with the following afternoon tea meet who knew that became our last "no lipstain" cups of coffee together! Only God knows how much I miss that kind of afternoon tea moment with my dad, uncle and aunty whenever I returned to my hometown.

Holidays, I got many guests-in-resident from my mother's side, I gave them my house rules from number 1 to 10. My mother never taught me how to wash a cup or a glass, so I knew that my grandma probably never taught her daughters, I was quite sure my cousins, nephew and nieces were not taught by their respective mothers of how to wash a cup and glass properly!

Did your mother ever teach you that washing a cup or glass rim with a dish detergent soaked sponge is more important than washing other parts of a cup or glass?

The fact is we drink through a cup or glass by smudging our lips to the rim, actually those lipstick stains on the rims reminded us of dirty trace better than those after used cups or glasses with invisible lip stains, so many people didn't wash their cups or glasses with a sponged and dish detergent just because they didn't grow such awareness and some of them might even think that their own lips are cleaner than others, they simply rinsed their used cups with water.

So remember to wash the rim of a cup, a mug or a glass with a sponge and dish detegent, no matter it is your own used cup or others!

What My Mom Should Have Taught and Told me?


Written by Mrs. Money


Continued from last publish

Eating Manners


Did your mother ever tell you, munch your foods with your lips closed tightly?

I went to a doctor’s surgery this morning saw a pretty friendly woman carried a nice LV handbag, unfortunately she has a bad manner that overwhelmingly spoiled her good outlook, she munched her chewing gum loudly with her opened mouth!

Yesterday I went to eat “Ray Cha” with my kids and my old aunt, after eating, she told my children, “Don’t smile with your teeth on after eating Ray Cha!” Immediately I took her advice, old ginger is hot, she is sensitive and experience in good manner.

After eating Ray Cha those minced vegetables would stick in between and on our teeth, now you know what I am talking, so next time please drink lots to rinse your teeth before you open your mouth after eating your Ray Cha.

Hoho .... Don’t bring your new girlfriend and boyfriend to eat Ray Cha, as they might just see the opponent’s dirty teeth!!

I recalled few years ago, I needed to interview a babysitter, when she showed up with her teeth smiling at me but with foods stuck in between her teeth, I immediately rejected her! So make sure you check your teeth from the mirror right before interview!

To be continued

MY SON IS STUPID OR THE ONES

WHO SET THOSE CONFUSING QUESTIONS?
Our education …. How up-to-date, substantial and flexible?

Written by Mrs. Money




30 years ago, my mom returned home told me a primary school teacher set a question to his students in this way:

Question: Can a bird sing?

Answer: (A) Yes ...................(B) No


According to my mom, she said those students who gave wrong answer of “Yes” argued with their teacher heatedly.

30 later, I bought my kids first time to visit Singapore National Bird Park, my kids and I were so amazed of those birds which could sing so many tunes, most surprising to me because those birds stayed on pitch better than some of our human voices!

"SINGAPURA…. SINGAPURA…..”

“KERR RENG DAO, KERR RENG DAO, MA MA BU ZAI JIA…”



Recently, I told myself that I wouldn’t mind my son gets the last in his class or even no number in his class is even better if all his teachers gave unreasonable confusing questions here and there after I gone through one of his wrongly answered question.

Question: An elephant needs:

Answer: (A) Bees and water

............(B) Fruit and bread

..............(C) leaves and water


My son gave the wrong answer of (B) fruit and bread, because that’s what he saw people throwing bread to the elephant when he visited the zoo.

I would think that it is much better for a book writer or a teacher to set answer clearly in this way for those very young kids

Question: An elephant needs:


Answer: (A)Bees and oil

..........................(B)Toys and insecticides

......................(C) Leaves and water


If such a writer or teacher wants their students to involve in critical thinking, I would suggest he sets his question and answer in this way

Question: A healthy elephant needs:

Answer: (A) Coca-cola and biscuits

...(B) Beer and pizza

......(C) leaves and water


Lastly I think it is always to get kids to involve in lateral thinking, this is a very popular question:

Question: When Polly saw two brown bags one with diamond and the other with bones, why she ran off happily with the bag that got bones?

Do you know the answer?

How long does it take you to figure out the answer?

This was the question given by Mr. Money’s specialist brother to test his two engineer brothers and his new sister-in-law.

So after I gave several barking someone still couldn’t give a correct answer! Then I only realised many profesionals lateral brains are inactive! May be those exposures I spent in two world class instituations did help me to develop my lateral thinking!


I remember when I was a teenager, my dad’s rich friend kept advising my poor dad not to send us to study in overseas but he sent all his kids, nieces and nephews to study in overseas!

Those elite rich and powerful families sent their kids since childhood years to study in overseas only in the best and most elite academies and they would speak perfect English (or Mandarin), to ensure their throne being succeeded one generation after another generation upon their returning to our country.

I think Darwin’s theory has exercised on in our educational system too, “survival of fittess!”

LOVE IN THE EYES OF A BEHOLDER!



Written by Mrs. Money




One day I gave a brainstorming session to my friend’s daughter about “love in the eyes of a beholder.”


She told me her friends were all crazy about marching band, even those boys in the marching band also had become dream boys to young girls. And those students who involved in the marching band were very proud of themselves too, she didn’t like their proud and arrogant altitudes.


I asked her, “Why you get bothered?” I tried to broaden her lateral side of mind, so I gave her an example. I told her that when I was studying in American universities, football players were the dream-men for college girls. Girls normally would scream hysterically when they saw football stars approaching them.


I told her I didn’t know anything about football and I didn’t like sport, so even if there was a most famous football star went after me, I wouldn’t even entertain him. Worst still if he was a proud man, I would even dare to give him my longest finger if he continuously bothered me. I didn’t fancy him, he would be a nobody to me, his arrogant ness, his bad altitude or fame would be nothing to my general concern and slight interest.


But I like smart men, so if there was an IQ 200 pursuing after me, I could be quite flattered!


Similarly there are many girls like rock-stars, I don’t like them, so they should look out for girls and fames that would adore and admire them.

What My Mom Should Have Taught and Told me?

Written by Mrs. Money

(Continuation from December 2009)

Flirting
It is a doorbell to give an opponent a notice that someone is coming!


My mom never taught me how to flirt an opposite sex; I think most probably she didn’t know how to do it so we all inherited from her!

In young days when my classmates flirting with each others in class, I thought they were just talking to each others nicely, got lots of common subjects and so lots of talks went on. These days I am old enough to learn those kinds of conversations amongst opposite sex is called “flirting”.

I was told by someone that my younger sister got a boy went after her during their secondary school years, but my younger sister would act cold and cool. I really believe our gene, we were both living in platonic world and we still didn’t know what the opposite sex creature is used for!

Recent morning after I woke up, all a sudden my brain matured a bit growing aware of my “stupidity and immaturity” even I was already by then 24 years old, I recalled there it was happened during my prettiest young days. My good friend kept asking me, “Hi, those men are kept looking here at you, are you their friends?”
“NO” I didn’t even look at those men, because I thought in a strange city I wouldn’t be able to meet somebody from Malaysia.
Then when I was on my way to the restroom, as I had to walk pass the tables those men sat, someone there worst still even tried to grasp me, again my good friend saw it from behind, “Are you sure you don’t know them? One of them tried to stop you!”
“NO” Again that’s my reply.

Rewinding my memory, I was invited by my friends to the most expensive and high class restaurant of a city, even in my merely a slight glance of such group of men, now I could tell they were either successful or rich or could be both. So may be those old days when I studied in branded academy, everyday I already tangoed with those rich and famous so those men was not a big deal to me.

I was rude in another sense even if I didn’t know how to flirt; at least I should response to those continuous glances from nearby table by returning them “a wave” or “a smile” instead just chose to ignore them.

So imagine if I knew how to give a successful flirt may be today I won’t be a no money tai tai but could be a Tan Seri diamond tai tai or a Datin ruby tai tai! So you can tell how regretful I am! Blame myself or my mom or both? So I am writing this article to teach girls how to “flirt successfully” and after you have “successfully flirted” a man, please don’t forget to send me an invitation card later to your wedding!

Girls need to know how to flirt appropriately and skillfully to give men a door to access and develop into another kind of romantic relationship. Flirting is a doorbell to give an opponent a notice that someone is coming; it is up to her or him willing to open the door to gain access to each other hearts.



Unreported Sexual Harassment and Rape Cases
Due to innocent or no face?

My sister was riding on a bus when she was in form six, one day a man tried to touch her hair from behind, she was panic and she never told anyone until she became a mom. So I asked her, “Anyone sat beside you when the thing happened?”
“Yes, my female classmate sat besides me.”
“She knew it?”
“No. I didn’t dare to tell her.”

When I was young, there was a librarian in my hometown library, I didn’t like to go to library was caused by him. He always liked to go touching little primary school girls’ buttock. He would choose to go after a single young girl in a secluded zone, he would either pretend to get closer and accidentally knock on you or he would give you a “colour wolf paw” on your bump. All young primary school girls in my generation knew there was such an librarian, but nobody reported him, and he was peacefully touching most primary school girls’ asses or pretended fallen accidentally next to girls’ buttocks.

So few years ago, I asked my sister who always hanged out in the library after her school, I asked her if ever such librarian went touching her, she told me that she did aware of such colorwolf, “So do you think we should do something?” I asked her.

“Well, leave him alone, he is an old man now!”

"Yeah! Too old to give him a threat of chopping his arms if he touches a young girl's ass again... probably he has retired!"

Well at least this little colorwolf in my hometown library just loved to touch young girls’ asses instead of raping them!

Old days mothers never taught their daughters to report anything unpleasant happened to them in their daily routine, mothers and daughters hardly talk due to their tough life and simple minds. Everything was peaceful due to everything happened if could tolerate, everyone learned to keep secrets in closets!

I suspected in old days in my hometown there was a rapist existed and he would commit crimes in villages, but cases were never reported. I heard that there was a student who was very good in her academy, but all a sudden her school result dropped badly. I knew those old days, students from most villages had to cycle like at least 30 minutes to reach a ferry to bring them across the river to ride into their respective secondary schools. Old days sad stories were never revealed but those victims’ life prevailed in a very obvious way, the girl that I suspected was a victim, she never got married even in a very old age. These stereo type conservative victims thought that if they were not “perfect girls” anymore, they would choose to get married to someone of our Chinese’s thought of as inferior races and professions. After they got married off, by then most of their ex-classmates wouldn’t be able to trace where they were.

These were the sad unrevealed stories happened to old days in my old hometown but everyone thought that it was a peaceful town all because such bad things never happened to them! I hope modern moms are smarter, braver and more responsible citizens, who would report rape and sexual harassment cases to police instead of just caring of their own faces and convenient.



Be a Responsible Citizen
But complications of police reporting drew victims off!

Be alert! I always told young girls, “You thought you are pretty because of some men looking at you outside your house or office when you returned home or reaching office? If you don’t look back at those men carefully and observe what they are doing or in alert to decide if you should enter your house or office, you never know the next minutes those men could turn into robbers, rapists or thieves!”

I saw a group of men gathered in a bush at the back of my house under the rain this morning. What were they doing? Fishing in a no river bush or showering under the early morning rain inside a bush? So I called my good neighbor to discuss the situation. An hour later a police patrol car came.

Also this morning, on my way sending my son to school, I saw a conman that conned me few years ago in an oil town, he was jogging under the rain with his sunglass on with very smart sport wear and cap on. An hour later people might think that he was a successful businessman if he started to wag his rogue tongue! Few years ago, I gave him a few fists and a lecture but Sin Chew Daily Newspaper reporter instead of cautioning people to beware of such conman, the reporter was trying to tell reader, “XX Teacher gave foul words” as a header to defame, humiliate and insult me!

Anyhow, the conman returned to his hometown Kuching, as he didn’t dare to dwell in the oil town due to my warning, “If I ever see you conning in this town again, I will go after you!” After the incident, so many of my friends warned me, “You …. Be careful, how dare you so brave to beat the conman up, you not scare ah huh!”
“Hi chickens! If the authority let me gave him a few fists which mean I got some weight or who knows may be I got a strong backup?! Simple theory is: No man has a face to report to anyone if being beat up by a girl! The authority is so smart!”

4 months ago after I sent off my son to school, on my returning trip, I discovered this conman's trace who was riding and passing by my cat city neighbourhood, he was wearing like a successful businessman, he wore a sunglass early in the morning but rode a bicycle which didn't fit his smart attire.

This conman is obviously nesting somewhere in Stutong area, that’s why I was able to catch he wore sunglass both under the rain or without bright sunshine, anyhow obviously he had been successfully acted and disguised as a successful contractor or a contractor's son called himself as Peter perhaps to con money from Kuching folks for at least few years already! I did report the trace of this conman to my DSP friend but he got posted to an island.

A year ago I show a victim of Jalan Ellis this conman’s photo, she recognized the conman who actually tried to con and stole money from her office, but the case was never launched due to there were so many complicated procedures in filing and reporting to police.

I heard the conman was conning all over Kuching, from Jalan Ellis to Jalan Song, today obviously he tried jogging his way down the road to Tabuan Laru and Stutong market area. The smartness of this conman is he would only steal RM200 or con RM200 or less, so if you have 100 durians on a tree, if being stole a durian by a squirrel, you let such squirrel ran free!

Cat city folks, he is still roaming free, and I saw him at least 10 times already riding his bicycle early in the morning emerged from the back of Stutong kampong and today he jogged under the rain towards Kuching Specialist Center, who knows he would act as a retire doctor and told people so and so surgeons are his good friends, and many people would believe and got impressed by him because of his eloquence con tongue. I wonder who would be the unlucky one lost RM200 today!

To be continued