Monday, October 25, 2010

POOR WOMEN AND PRESTIGIOUS WOMEN IN A LABOR WARD!
Either God is unfair or God really punishes poorer women!



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Written by Mrs. Money



There is a doctor in this city who would always advise his patients to deliver their babies in the general hospital, he convinced them over there the facilities are fully equipped and it is also the cheapest versus those private hospitals.

Sounded so good! Many people and I would agree his points too. He said it and he did it. His wife delivered all her babies in the general hospital, I heard that during labor all those nurses and doctors would really pay attention on her well-beings.
Was this doctor showing off to people that he and his wife are prestigious or they were really kind of nerds and insensitive persons?

How many women from lower and mediocre background who couldn’t afford deliver their babies in this city private hospitals went to general hospital delivering their babies, would they receive special attention like this doctor’s wife received all past while?

Just give an example, when my staff delivered her first baby in a general hospital somewhere in northern region of the state, there was no nurse on scene either during dilation or expulsion stage and when the baby’s head emerged, her husband had to rush out the labor ward searching for a nurse who could help! And for the whole laboring affair there was no single trace of a doctor? I learn that a doctor would be called in only during real critical condition when those nurses couldn’t handle anymore!

I learned that those nurses in the labor wards were mostly arrogant, aloof and cocky, most of the time those women and their families got to bride those nurses. Their position fostered their nasty unfriendly altitude as doctors were hardly around them, most of the time they were their own boss, women in labor depending badly on them to assist. In certain cases, those women were being scold rudely, “Why you scream so loud?When you did it yet you were so happy, weren’t you?”

But I still salute those
very few kind-hearted, patience and smiling nurses in labor ward over this city general hospital who genuinely wanting to help women without looking at one’s background, their dedications are worthy to be praised by everyone.

This is still happened in Sarawak state, women with poor background would deliver their own babies without any family member presented, after their short rest (With little suitable post labor foods taken), they would carry their new born babies home either by walking a distance to catch a bus or take a boat returning to their kampong.

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