Sunday, September 26, 2010

PRACTISE OF BLACK MAGIC


A driven kind of heirlooms still persisted to this 21st century!Written by Mrs. Money


Anisomeles indica (Catmint; Lamiaceae):
One of the most popular weeds used by Chinese-Malaysian to ward off evil spirit or for cleansing purpose

http://www.freewebs.com/mykal-laws/thegreenworld.htm














If there was a God, there would have many devils; the world earliest religion is Zoroastrianism and it was probably existed amongst many paganism cults’ practices.

All religions should be good, they teach human beings to behave, promote peace and happiness, how to live in good beings spiritually and physically and in return the believers would be blessed, saved or protected from harms.

All authorized religious practices won’t encourage their followers to practice black magic aiming to harm other people or races, to gain their wealth and social status, to promote longevity or to control over a person’s destiny, desire and physical health. Only paganism cults’ practices would emphasize these attractive packages to lure greedy, selfish and born bad-hearted persons into the negative forces.

Talking about negative forces, there are surrounded us and sometimes the bad energies, bad intentions and bad influences might be able to overwhelmingly diverting us from our good standings. So we have to be very careful of who we hang out with, e.g. if you are not a womanizer but you love to hang out with your womaniser-friends, soon you will hear what your friends did and eventually curiosity provoked you going with them to take a look, at last either you choose to play with them or you return home quarrel with your angry wife!

Human beings rebellious genes went against their creator was due to their unexpected exposure to negative forces grating in such defection during the time of creation, after human beings’ disobedient reactions disappointed God, from there God could detect his assistant, dark angel’s betrayal.
Human beings once offended their creator, since then, their offspring were born with genetically handicapped in somewhere over their physical body and wills.


Why I specially wrote this article?

Because I heard such black magic gossips since 1991 when I first returned from overseas to work in Brunei, e.g. I have a friend who taught music, she said there was a fat ugly lady whenever she came for lesson, her handsome British doctor hubby would accompanied her. Soon someone told my friend that fat lady was actually working in a hospital as a maid, because she used black magic to spell on the British doctor causing the doctor to divorce from his British wife. Few years later my friend heard a gossip that there was a Mat Saleh suddenly woke up from a spell realizing what had happened to him, in overnight time he returned to England!

Believe or not it is up to you, but I saw the couple myself, the British doctor hubby was always very quiet, and his eyes got no scintillations. Don’t mention their comparability of physical or social status differences, sadly in oppose of what I saw, when they walked together their relationship was more like a master and a pet Saint Bernard dog but its tail never wagged, its eyes never shone and it behaved like an aging old dog!

There were so many more juicy black magic sensitive issue stories that I heard in Brunei, eventually, after some time those women who used black magic would not get their return in good, eventually divorces still happened!

Then when I worked in an oil town, I was so surprised that on every first and fifteen day on each lunar month, I always saw people burning incense on the road sides. As most folks grew along Rejang River are mostly Christians, to see incense burning frequently over northern region was looking odd to me. One of my associates in my profession asked me one day, ”Since you have so many siew rein (小人) appeared in your life, why don’t you go da siew rein (打小人)?”

I countered her immediately, “Are you a Christian going SIB church? How could you still do it?”

She replied me, “What’s wrong? I don’t care! I still did it if someone offended me!”

After she revealed to me, since then I was afraid to hang out with this lady, because my religious belief has taught me: Even my business rivals and enemies offended me badly or put black magic spell on me, I should not retaliate any stronger black magic spell back on them, I only prayed to my God asking to grant me protection from all harms and I would let my God to decide what to do with those negative forces.

I can't believe of what I read from internet, there are so many people practiced black magic spell on someone they hate or on someone they desired.

For this articles, I interviewed few people to gain my insight knowledge of how widespread black magic still practice in our 21st modern world, can you associate with a modern time woman with friendly, kind and gentle outlook but she put black magic spell on her own hubby? Spelled her daughters’ dad? It mostly happened when those women could only produce girls for their hubbies, obviously under the modern look appearance these women still believe that it’s their faults enable to produce a baby boy for their respective hubby!

I learned from a lady that this “magic portion” to “pet” a man is made from “essence” (decayed liquid) of a dead corpse! The woman would dash such oilmen on their upper eye lips, so their spelled hubbies would trail after them time to time like a puppy, I was told that the hubbies would never become wealthy and agressive, instead these men would look slow, no light come out of the eyes and having very quiet composure, the head mostly would looking downwards.

This lady told me she hasn’t seen many cases in East Malaysia, but she has seem a lot of this kind of spelled men in West Malaysia. Perhaps she didn’t mix a lot since she moves to Kuching, for me I already heard of few cases happened in Kuching here, e.g. when an older lady with many kids who fell in love with a younger man desperately, first of all she dumped her hubby, then she went for plastic surgery and at last she used the "dead corpse decayed liquid" oilmen to dash on her upper eye lip to sustain such a "cheating" relationship! It really worked; her new hubby would turn up in her work or wherever in her presence frequently just to take a look on her, but his "sticky" action actually bothered many ladies on presence to witness such "fake" affection, thus gossips spread. Every woman would ask themselves, “Where are our hubbies?” But these women got a “live” husband in their life, who would seldom listen to what their wives told them to do. I would advice ladies to feed a pet dog if you really want somebody to pay attention on you all the time! It will lick you, waves its tail and brush on its fur on you giving most affections needed!
If once those women have connections with black magic, they can’t quit, most of the time they would probe deeper into the cults practice. At first they would “help” their own by tying their own respective hubby; gradually they would “progress” to“help” their own children. So if happened when they found out their daughters or son-in-laws got business rivals and enemies, they would practice black magic spell either eliminate those enemies or making them fallen very sick and fatigue (always surprisingly in this case there was no fever and no obvious virus symptoms, even doctors wouldn’t be able to find the cause!) Or sometimes they would pretend to give them gifts but dashed with a kind of oilmen to activate the spell. I always read in Chinese story book about some powerful black magic cult master could simply made a straw doll, obtained a hair from a victim, put spelled on the straw doll then inserting it with needles, the victim in far away land would fall really sick and the torment would last until the victim fatigued to his death!

We also been advised that we should not simply give our photo to a stranger to avoid being spelled, so imagine in this modern world, I have my version of story to tell too: If a bad hearted unknown person got an access to your facebook site, they printed out photos from your facebook, read some spells on the photo, insert it with some needles to your body (photo), never know the victim could suffer chilling bones pains and followed by fatigue too! Let me add some more juicy versions, this usually happened when the moon is round or either the moon is completely off!

Why black magic is so widespread? Because when the bad person did it, and there would be little evident or no trace could be found! And if really the victim has found something unusual happened to her, she also can’t find a solid proof to tell it to any one of her friends or even to her own husband and family members lest that they will laugh that she is being paranoid or insane!
Since ages ago, black magic has been practiced actually all over S. E. Asia amongst those villagers or even city dwellers who believe in paganism. I would advise my friends that If you ever heard one of your friends or one of his/her family members know the sources of black magic or asked if you need the magic potion to spell on your enemy, then beware of such a friend, don't offense her but better avoid her!


I was told never eat rojak in eateries operated by suspicious owners, sometimes some black-hearted owners would use witch craft to attract customers, in return they have to offer a dead per yearly for such help. So if you are unlucky, you can be a victim used to offer the underworld ghosts! I was told they used a kind of burned caterpillar to produce such toxic powder then mix in rojak to serve customers!

My good friend from West Malaysia told me this true story few days ago when I told her I wanted to write something about black magic spell: She told me when she was young she lived in a neighborhood where most people practiced paganism conjured with their respective religions sarcastically! When she was a teenager, there was one of the three neighboring young brothers liked her so much, but they got “no access” to her as she got very strict parents, so one day the young men’s mom brought a plate of food to her house. Luckily the night before, my friend’s mom dreamed, so her mom preferred not to go working on the next morning, the neighbor did bring a plate of food, ended my friend's mom received it in the front door but dumped it out from the backdoor, and in later days my friend’s mom even found out there was a dashed spell putting right outside her house gate, but it didn’t work as my friend mom immediately took her to an Indian spell-breaker master, he inserted something to her tongue and told her before she got married, she got to take it out. And she was asked not to eat meat few days before performing this “spell-breaking inserting surgery”, after that she was told by the spell-breaker that she shouldn’t take a certain kind of banana or else the breaker wouldn’t work anymore!
So, when your relative revealed to you something about your good friend's nasty behaviors, you have to learn in discretion of what is right or wrong "reporting" your good friend of what you heard from your relative, as if you don’t know your good friend’s mom is actually a disciple of black magic practice, “your white raven kind” revelations to your good friend actually would risk your own relative’s life and health. Or if your boyfriend’s dad is a business rival of your good friend’s brother, if you went to visit your good friend, her mom would be making you feeling like your own mom, she let you drank nice drink and gave you nice gifts with spell on, you took it home or after you hugged your boyfriend, your boyfriend hugged his dad, the spell turned on. At first your boyfriend dad would feel so sick then he recovered, and you continuously being invited to your good friend's house entertained by her smiling face nice mom, suddenly one day everybody was shocked that your boyfriend's dad died suddenly in an accident!
I was told there is a kind of black magic spell breaker concoction sold in China, it is very expensive and made of essence from a black dog. This particular black dog essence spell-breaker is so strong that, once you eat it, no spell would be able to harm you. These days, my friend’s family who owes the black dog essence spell-breaker only left little in remaining, my friend told me, “Rescue people is more important, I always secretly scratch a bit of powder from it not to let my mom knew it!” She gave me an example of how her neighbor’s brother-in-law got "hynoptised" by a divorced woman, after his wife secretly mixed in the given spell-breaker concoction into his drinking water, on the third day he suddenly checked his bank statement and began asking his wife where his money had gone to, only by then he realized he was under spelled by his mistress, later the couple found out the lady was a con-woman, my friend told me she is pleased to see the couple is now getting back together again,she added the spell-breaker only worked if the person was truly spelled but it wouldn’t work on the person who was in conscious.

I asked her, “You drank that black dog’s mighty spell-breaker concoction?”

“Yes!”

“I won’t dare!”

“Why not?”

“I just won’t dare!”

But I never told her most probably due to my strong background on Christianity, I wasn’t influenced by any paganism or cult practice since I was born. Instead I was grown through a very innocent “puritan” kind of strict simple childhood with strict religious disciplines and teachings. (I was even forbidded by my dad to listen any 70s and 80s pop music) I won’t dare to eat such odd concoction, when my kids were so sick a month ago with high fever persisted even after strong dose of antibiotic, as they rejected my magic potion of herbal concoction, so I just prepared a hot bath with herbs threw into the water to let them soaking there for an hour, when they recovered it was my turn to get sick, with no fever but just having drilling pain in bones, I just went to the garden plucked some herbs and weeds prepared my own concoctions, three days later my friends saw me walking on the street but anytime ready to visit a toilet!

Black magic or virus?

If ones got spelled by black magic, doctors wouldn’t be able to find out what went wrong to their patients, (a reason, may be medical technology in our era is still not advanced enough to find out what’s wrong!) but normal sickness due to virus or bacteria, doctors would be able to give you a correct diagnose, prescribe you an effective remedy and cure.
Lastly, please read this blog:
http://www.religionnewsblog.com/category/witchcraft

Monday, September 13, 2010

TO ALL SPINSTERS





From what I observed since two decades ago, most Chinamen in our Chinamen infested state treat married women meanly as used cars; dub meanly to those unmarried spinsters as “old virgin maids” and used ruthlessly of those “used” spinsters to fulfill their fantasies and lust without any guilty and responsibility as they thought those “used girls” since were no more a virgin, after dumped them they even got hearts to blow their trumpets as "mermaids-mongers", “This girl is not fresh and that girl is not fresh!”


A while back my friend asked me if I could find a bachelor to introduce her spinster friend of almost 40 years old, I thought most probably this spinster was pressurized by her family members. Most old thinking parents and siblings might think that their responsibility would come to an end by getting rid of the only unwanted spinster in the family. In addition, the spinster often has to bear nasty rude remarks, defaming gossips amongst her circle and often she has to prevent some married men of no good intention trying to approach her.

Perhaps some spinsters would think of getting married due to they got a dream of marrying a rich prince charming, so they could quit their job burden by turning into a homemaker. Often this kind of dream actually easily rushed the spinsters into unhappy marriage or spiraled the spinsters into a conman trap, as there is a group of conmen specialized in targeting for rich spinsters, these conmen know the spinsters’ sweet dreams, they fulfilled these rich spinsters with temporary romance and once they got the money they would retreat without a trace.

Some rich spinsters would run into another kind of old-age advantage seeking bachelors who are also as desperate to get married either by a crook or hook, pretending that they are the ideal bachelor men, “Huh, what’s so big deal about Akung making a million ringgit within three years? Actually within a year, a project of mine could make more money than him.”

Never ever trusted a man’s word as long as he showed off himself so directly; never ever trusted a man’s word even if he used his weasel’s claim to impress, “The vehicles in my site used up RM8000 diesel each day!” A sharp listener wouldn’t immediately calculate that RM8000 times 30 days or wonder how many lorries and trucks the bluffer owed but she would smartly wonder how many vehicles in the man’s site actually belong to him entirely.

Actually in my experience, I realized there is a stereo-type rich men wives treated the single unmarried spinsters most meanly, they dressed up like old mates, never put on any make-up, very smart shrew businesswomen and they only bullied spinsters with less prestigious background than theirs! The stereo-type spinsters they targeted to haunt are usually around 30 over years old, usually pretty, tasteful enough to dress-up and put make-up nicely, extrovert, sweet but innocent. An example, I got a close friend when she just returned from England to help out in a hotel owed by her cousin, unfortunately a director’s wife kept giving her troubles and haunting after her until she quitted her job. In short, these abnormal rich men wives treated all pretty older age spinsters as their potential insecure marriage threatening enemies. I remember I was advised by such a stereo-type rich man’s wife of such illogical quote, “A girl would only become a perfect woman if she got married and had kids!”


If I get a chance to see her one of later days in another end of hemisphere, I would re-quote to her, “An unmarried girl is a perfect girl, because she is a virgin in any Chinaman’s eyes but married women are used cars to men!”; “A girl would only become a perfect woman if she got married to a rich man and had kids to make her standing more firmly in a rich family!” and “An imperfect unmarried girl would become a perfect woman after being married, it was all because she messed around with somebody’s husband, so she has to get married to her ‘Mister’ to make herself a perfect woman then!”

When a poor lady married into a rich family or to a wealthy man, conditionally the high life establishment could blind her to talk, act and think sensitively and sensually. She might even think that’s her good karma led her to end on such high life and she actually afraid to mix with poor women married to poor husbands, as she afraid that their poor karma might saturated her purity! Often their own feeling of superiority indirectly led them acting real arrogant to other less prestigious poorer married women and spinsters.

From time to time rich men wives would mix poor men wives or spinsters to proof that they are humble person, but the contrast would be instantly revealed from their little fussy actions and driven talks, they enjoyed such superiority moments to show off that they wouldn’t eat inferior foods given by poor men wives or use inferior goods introduced by poor men wives but left alone those sensitive poor men wives to feel embarrassments for them, actually the rich men wives got loaded only with monies but with limited knowledge about exotic fruits, foods and goods, as it they only know LV but don’t know what is Hermes’ birkin, they know what is blue berries but don’t know what is gooseberries and they think richer tin kosong tai tai words are more valuable than poor men knowledgeable wives or poorer spinsters. In short, poor tai tai and spinsters could reflect what rich tai tai's wanted contrast of their superiority complex satisfactory.


If you are coming to 30 or 40 years old but still a spinster, it is wiser you only go out with other spinsters and avoid any married women including your own family members. It is always wiser you stay alone or with other spinsters and the best is stay away from your family members and you should not go back home during any festival or New Year. Choose your holiday to visit foreign countries instead of balik kampong.


An example, there was a spinster who was well respected as a professional in an oil town but when she returned home she was merely an old-age spinster-daughter of somebody and poorest amongst all her professional siblings. She never realized her family low standing until her secondary school classmate came visiting her, her dad was talking to her ex-classmate and she would join in the conversation from time to time, soon her dad threw her a stern look then he hinted her to shut up. At first she was very angry as she thought she was much more educated and exposed than even her classmate or in some topics she was even better than her dad, she wondered why her dad treated her as an uneducated lady who should remain quiet when the men were in conversations?! Her educated dad Chinaman’s behaviors towards her actually hurt her and the incident let her doubt if it was because she was unmarried thus she was without a status in the family therefore she shouldn’t express her personal views.

Sometimes an unmarried older age lady shouldn’t have much communication with their own married “Chinawomen” thinking siblings, afraid that such stupid sister could turn into a horrible witch simply introducing you a “rich man" but actually a loser, a “no tail dog” that “it” would keep haunting after you until you got married to him.


"Chinawomen-thinking" siblings would prefer seeing you publicized your marriage news on a newspaper rather than seeing you being interviewed in newspapers. She would tell her sister-in-law in such a condemned tongue-in-cheek remark, “You know, my sister love to appear in the newspaper!” Indirectly, she wanted to tell her sister-in-law that she didn’t appreciate and like her old-age spinster-sister. Soon, even relatives from her sister’s husband dislike her and they began gossiping about her due to she was disapprove by her own sister.


Soon, you got married to the “no tail dog”, every "Chinaman and Chinawomen" in the family were very happy, but once after the dog revealed that he got no tail, soon they began reaching a stage of tongue-in-cheek episode to teach her own kids, “Hey kids, don’t marry a short wife or a short husband, or else for three generations you will get dwarf-like offspring!”, “Haha, the short man soon would lost his hair and grow his poke belly!” The witchy sibling rather gave your telephone number to a short man to set you up to get rid of you, but she wouldn’t allow her own kids to hook up a short lady or man!


Older age spinsters, you should never plan simply getting married off with those similar older-age bachelor men par up to you, as some of them might think that you were the one desperately wanting to get married, they would treat you cheap! Though they were as desperate too, yet these Chinamen always thought that they are evergreen and superior than girls as they can still produce babies when they are coming to 70 years old! Thus they wouldn’t respect you but rather they would end up using you to fulfill social expectation yet after married they themselves wouldn’t change much to their old bachelor style of life.


Spinsters, I witnessed so many of these cases and in some cases I stupidly poked in my nose to experience but I got only the nose full of ashes in returns (one of them even blurted out to me that he preferred women with 36DDs indirectly hinted me he wouldn’t be interest to go on with me, the other bachelor would tell me that I came too strong to him and many times when I mentioned to bachelors that I wanted to introduce them a good older-age girl, without hesitation they would make an excuse that the girl's not pretty….. if men not interested on an older-age girl, you would receive insults and humiliations so directly!): No matter you are still pretty or not pretty, modern up-to-date look or old mate look, when you come to 30 to 40, those professional monies and status loaded men with 40s WON'T take a second glance on you because if they want to get married in their 40s, they are already growing either wise or cunning, they will look up a package of young girls in 20s, must be young enough to help him bearing healthy offspring and EITHER should be pretty OR as almost qualified as them. In this kind of older-age bachelors' dictionary written:
Money barter-trading in with Youths.
Once these older-age men married with the package they "bought", they would proudly announced, "I am though fifty now, but I feel young! (due to I have a young wife .... silently he added to himself or his own relatives and close friends)



Another case of 30 to 40 spinsters if you wish to attract the age 40 over bachelor men to keep a second glance on you and then trailed after you, you have to think twice of unknown ill-fate could end up happened to next half of your life. They would end up calling you every night to tell you the benefits of getting married or half threat you if you don’t marry them, they would tell you that you might soon only ended marrying those old widowers or becoming someone’s mistresses.
I am very sure that these calculative useless bachelors are planing to share your salary for the future marriage life, though initially they would use weasel claims to tell you how able and wealthy they actually were. Even if you tell them that you don’t have much money, they wouldn’t believe what you revealed. They thought since you have worked for decades, if you didn’t leave much money at least you would leave some peanuts!

These older age bachelor men usually didn’t earn as much money and neither handsome, so they got to set trap to trick those professional spinsters, of course if the spinsters were pretty, it would be an extra bonus to them. Once these professional spinsters got married to this kind of semi-liars, the truth only would be revealed on the day after getting married. The feeling of such old age marriage with a poor thoughtless husband and further on with kids coming along would be like riding on the back of a tiger!

Usually this kind of husbands would still have their thick face on saying, “You know at this young age, my monies are all dumping into my business. How I can afford you a nice car, a nice house and lots of cash for you?” When you told him why other men a lot younger than him still run their business, gave much worried-free in financial promise, nice car and nice house to their wives, he would immediately retaliated, “Why don’t you go marrying Sudan of Brunei?” When you complained he hardly had time spent on you, he would reply, “Ok, I will quit my job then stay with you everyday at home, I don’t work, where I got money to feed the family?”

In short, rich, good looking, smart and eligible young men were all booked by as eligible and catchy girls even as early in their secondary school years, the left-over older smart rich older age bachelors for sure won’t look up an old age spinster to get married. Only those tongue-in-cheek stupid unable older-age bachelors would accept and take advantage of older age spinsters’ financial establishment and even without love to get married.


I would advise older age spinster girl of 30 to 40s looking up for eligible professional bachelor men of 50 to 60s, but they are rarely remained, actually they are kind of extinct. These men would be introvert, very able, good homemakers, have their own special interests and hobbies, they won’t get bored to join facebook or chat with strangers in MSM, they are as “perfect and thoughtful” as gays, they are very peculiar too in choosing a wife, they prefer to keep their bachelorhood if they never meet their dream girls, usually these eligible Chinese men with the best of western minds and eastern values are confined within whites. To able to encounter such an eligible man, you are like winning a lotto!


Old age spinsters, lastly I would advice you, don’t step in the wrong path and don’t end up riding on the back of a tiger. Every morning you get up, you tell yourself in front of the mirror, “I am perfect! (no matter you are virgin or not, as long as you are not married and not tied up with kids you will be a perfect lady and qualify to be married at any time once you meet your prince charming!), I have all the freedom to do my own things! (Don’t get too involved with your Chinamen and Chinawomen kindred and friends, avoid them with all kind of excuses, send them monies and gifts will often seal up their mouths) I am pretty and tasteful! (Make sure you learn how to put up good make-up and dress-up finely with variety of taste, love every parts of your body!) I am knowledgeable! (You must read a lot to past your free time, go movies, go out with other spinster friends, go traveling, enjoy exotic foods, pursue good hobbies and interests might even lead you to meet Mr. Old Right!)


You should buy yourself a reliable car and a house decorated it nicely, (better don’t feed pets as you have to travel frequently, as single you shouldn’t let yourself tie up by something alive like dogs, cats and plants, you avoid begging someone to take care of your pets and plants) make it your permanent home, if you really meet a Mr. Old Right, this house ended will give you an extra income from rental fees. So don’t keep dreaming of marrying a rich dream man, ended up you never purchase your own house instead wasting your earning lavished on foods, travellings and entertainments!

For those high income famous spinsters, you got to watch out for con-men either within our country or a white from western country, also you don’t lash out your personal problem to any stranger and unreliable friends. Often, we read the news of famous and rich actresses got cheated by Italian con-men; these were the good examples to caution you. Never ever go MSM to meet up strangers (some handsome white men photos are never the true identities), never ever simply trusted an “eligible” male friend bluffed and introduced by your friend, who was actually not your friend’s good friend but merely an associate, never ever entertain a stranger (syndicate con-men are usually handsome and good looking eligible) who suddenly come up to you bluffed that he was your sister’s classmate or your friend’s classmate.

Spinsters, if you can’t avoid Chinamen and Chinawomen’s tongue-in-cheek, get a western country PR and leave this country, dare to leave your business and sometimes being selfish is a MUST!

I admire you, unmarried ladies; I respect you, unmarried ladies. I would avoid to use the word spinster, it is the word defined and sounded segregation, it is very unfair, rude and inappropriate to describe those modern look, highly educated and well exposed older-age single unmarried ladies as spinsters (Chinamen would call spinsters as old virgin maids) Definitely modern single ladies, you have a better life, more freedom, more financial independence than many millions of unhappy married women!
BEING ELIMINATED BY SOMEONE IN THEIR FACEBOOK
They prefer buried their heads in the sand and let me see their big butts and tails!



Written by Mrs. Money




Episode 1



It happened to someone, whenever she dropped down something in her facebook that didn’t sound right to her eldest sister, she would get eliminated from her eldest sister’s facebook immediately.

The eldest sister thought that her ridicule writings would bring shame and embarrassment to her and thus would give her “no face” to her friends of having a weird younger sister. It happened after being eliminated for few times in facebook by her eldest sister, she decided not to send her eldest sister anymore request, she thought she needs her pride too.

She is very unlucky having siblings don’t think and act like her; none of them is odd like her, so instantly she becomes an only black sheep. When she told her siblings that her paths ahead looked very winding and unforeseen, they all thought that she got a depression and being very negative. When she got diagnosed by a famous Asian psychiatrist in Mt. E; he told her that her path should be smooth too, but she knew that there was nothing wrong to her eyes, she really saw the dark winding paths beyond her journeys but how could everyone besides her told her that her path was smooth while they were not focusing their sights on her dark winding paths but they based on what they saw from their own bright straight paths!

Not until she got diagnosed by an Ang Mo psychiatrist, she learned from her Ang Mo psychiatrist that people who always walked on smooth paths won’t understand one’s pains of going through dark winding paths in alone. The Ang Mo psychiatrist concluded that she was just another normal lady to those millions of strong people who had gone through dark winding paths.

Those lucky folks who all their life walked on smooth passages would never understand her pains and scars, her revealing scars actually could bring embarrassments and shame to her eldest sister and to her other siblings who simply treat it as an transparent object.

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EPISODE 2


She appeared in my facebook for few years and we were never ever on bad words, but one day I discovered didn’t know when her name got disappeared from my facebook.

Soon again, I found her trace in the facebook accidentally but with different name yet with her same old friends except she never sent any adding request to me for her new identity. I wonder the reason she eliminated me was it because of one of her newly added friend is one of my ex-staff who ‘ate’ my business during my maternal leave in overseas. Who gave her treats in posh restaurants when she returned from overseas, it is quite amazed of how nice meals could change her mind to eliminate me as her friend in the facebook. I got my pride too; I didn’t want to send her any request. I am quite hurt of how realistic and cold the world is, and I wonder how many youngsters are actually stars chasers.”

When someone cut off the string from a flying kite, the kite would drop out somewhere of one’s sight and he turned to walk off on an opposite route. There are so many heartless people who used, defamed and abused someone then kicking them off and also took their bosses’ friends and associates away. They thought world is big; we will never meet again, as if I am in Kuching, they are in an opposite hemisphere and I am a jobless tai tai but they are now professionals.

Ruthless people normally thought of once a cutting off kite would never meet the same old string again; this is how most people would think, that’s why lifelong friendships without urging for mutual benefits is very rare; world is round, never know one day the string though never get attached to the kite again, yet encountering the old kite flies right above its nose!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

HERBAL GARDEN IN KUCHING (LING CHUNG KOK'S LCK HERB GARDEN)



I came out the garden with handful of rare herbs Free-of-charged, where in the world got such a deal?.... But it happened right here in Kuching city!




Written by Mrs. Money






My cousin knows too well of my interest, she finally took me to this herbal garden that she accidentally saw when she passed by it.

We were lucky when popped by without making any appointment and caught the owner right in the house.

I recognized his face from a newspaper interview, I introduced to him our common background, foo chow and both were originated from a same hometown.

He operates this herbal garden in non-commercial basis and have been helping uncountable unhealthy people and herbs enthusiasts. He encourages people to plant their own herbs at home and he also helps to coordinate Kuching herbal planters to exhibit a coming herbal show on Dec. 18th, 2010.

There are more than 300 different kinds of herbs and plants in Mr. Ling's herbal garden, he gives the herbs that you need free-of-charged, thus often when he wanted certain rare herbs or plants, strangers would bring him surprises. I went to the garden empty handed, when I came out I got handful of seedlings, seeds and plants. I was kind of embarassed making me felt like a "semi con-woman"! Next round visiting him, I will definitely return his kindness and generousity by giving him some rare herbal seedlings from my own garden.

I would advise you bring a group of well cultivated friends to visit Mr. Ling (I don't advise you bring 'goat-kind' of bo ka si friends, bo ka si friends might embarass you by plucking the herbs themselves without any permission from the owner!) because a visit could spend Mr. Ling's time for at least an hour. I specially appreciated his patience, able to spend time sharing with my cousin and I about herbs and when he saw my daughter was coughing he even gave me certain leaves taught me how to prepare it.


Here I would like to wish Mr. Ling "Happy Gardening"!
Mr. Ling can be contacted 019-8270098, you have to ask him for his address, I won't give it here openly for security reason.


Stevia plants with flowers




Jasmine that can change to three different colors


My cousin likes this special fruit


Giant Lo Han Guo blossom


Pink stem herb good for curing coughing


Stevia leaves


Creepers to cure arthritis


Kwan Gin Lian


Mr. Ling is originated from Sarikei, in earlier years he studied political science from Nam Yang University, Singapore,  later he earned his
 business degree in Australia.

  He spent after-graduate first two years working for passed Datuk Sim as a private secretary before leaving to work in Solomon Island.  His wife is originally from Sibu and he has three very smart adult kids graduated from Australia and NZ. In his retired age, while other people might spend their time earning more money, gaining more authority and power, he enjoys his life and time with beautiful herbal plants, helps uncountable friends and strangers. (Updated)


Famous Taiwanese's Siang Chuwen tree, I heard of its leaf is an aromatic spice used in fried rice, but quite dissapointed to me, he said this species of red stem doesn't have that fragrant of the white stem species


If you get stones, this is the leaves would melt the stone into powder, he then told me an interesting story of how a man who took the leaves from him but didn't listen to his advice, instead the man boiled all the leaves given at once, after drinking the concoction, that evening the man's urine duct got blocked. All because the concoction was too strong, stones broken into dust was found in the man's urine! He advised to take just two pieces each day, but for a brief period only.


Melting stone herbal plant


Jasmine


Rare Mo Pan Chow


Someone gave him his dreamed fig tree! This is not the wild species fig with oval leaves that we found locally


My dreamed Jia Ku Lan found in his herbal garden! West Malaysians used it to replace tea leaves when preparing ley chai.


Wild sesame tree



My cousin loves this beautiful red flower


My cousin asked me to take this water lily, she likes its peacock-like blossom.


This plant can get rid of mosquitoes within a limited parameter


Beautifully designed herbal garden


Plants love to live in this heavenly herbal sanctuary!


One of the 5 Chinese treassured herbs


Surprised me when I found this herb is actually very tiny plant.


Sunflower to cheer up the herbal garden


Giant Lo Han Guo


Medicational cotton

Monday, August 30, 2010

THE MOST RECOMMENDED PLACE TO VISIT IN KUCHING


The Kuching Orchids Park


Big red orchids found in Kuching Orchids Park


Written by Mrs. Money
This is the most recommended place to visit in Kuching, choose a cloudy day to take a walk around the orchids park. It will bring you certain inspiration to design your own home garden or bring along a camera to take photos for your kids and family with definitely fanstatic colorful background.
However, I won't advise you to jog there, as I suspected those orchirds were sprayed periodically with insecticides and pesticides. Bring a mask if you are allergic to chemical smell!
This is a garden pretty enough to impress Hollywood and international celebrities! Kuching folks should feel proud of it and whoever help to mastermind and design it should be applaused.



How the small yellow species orchid being mounted to grow on a dead tree and its branches.
One of the most beautiful landscape in Kuching city, good for taking wedding photos


One of the decorating pieces upon entrace hall


Beautiful big bright orchids often used for a bride's bouquet.



Wild orchids and parasitic plants grow on a massive fruit tree


Another good idea of where to plant orchid plants but won't take up too much space


Pink Orchid Pink Orchid Every Morning You Greet Me!


Red number!


For show, I think this is not a nice species to plant in your house unless you have a vast garden


Small pink orchids, more green than pink, I won't plant this species in my little home garden but it is another perfect piece in Kuching Orchid Garden

A rotten tree trunk being hanged with orchid plants on it! Simply creative.I am thinking of designed a round number with orchid plants mounted on it but windchimes hanged on its bottom! Orchid wind chimes with pitch!

This is a nice red number

Actually orchids garden is not that hot due to the netting camouflaged direct sunlight.


Assorted numbers



Sunday, August 29, 2010

IS IT A BATHROOM OR A SWIMMING POOL?


Never design your shower door to open outwards!
Written by Mrs. Money




After I returned from JB, I asked Mr. Money, “Can you tell me what went wrong with the nicely designed walk-in wardrobe suite attached to bathroom in Pulai Spring apartment?”

He replied me, “Nothing wrong.”

“Nothing wrong? You never noticed that there was something wrong once you emerged from shower?”

“What’s wrong?” Aye! What a typical China man!

“The tempered glass shower door full of water droplets opened outwards thus caused water droplets leaking directly to the bathroom floor. Did you notice the floor of the toilet was always wet unless we didn’t take shower?!”

There are many architects and interior designers, but why some are much more famous than the others? I am so glad Mr. Money is not an architect or interior designer!

Architects and interior designers must be very sensitive, possess inert alertness realized quickly what went wrong with one of their own designs or drawings, even a little detail like bathroom door opened outwards or inwards should be considered carefully, what is feasible and what is not feasible to their designs.

Little bad designs actually caused high maintaining fees and could cost a lot of money for renovation too.

Imagine if most occupants would use few towels or toilet papers drying the wet toilet floor or some of the occupants would walk out directly from the bathroom with wet feet to the carpeted floor! Unsatisfied occupants and wastage of toilet papers or tissue papers left a mess to cleaning ladies to handle. Just imagine how dirty those floor mat and towels found both on the wet toilet floor!

MY SON BECOMES A BULLIED VICTIM IN SCHOOL


The bully especially likes to pick on my son according to his classmates,
is it all because he has a nice mom who didn't scold the bully or because he never told me he got bullied in school?

On June he told me his dirty knees were due to crawling in his classroom, I wonder now should I believe him!

Written by Mrs. Money



My son’s Qdees nursery teacher cautioned me last Thursday as she thought the bullied situation got worsen, she learned it all the while from my son's classmates that my son was badly bullied often in class by a particular fat boy called Aaron, in this particular day she found my son crying loudly complaining of pains on his leg, she told me his both arms up to ankles and both legs up to his knees were dirty.

“This is not the first time happened to him, last time when I found Aaron pushed him, I warned Aaron but he gave me a cheeky challenged mocking smile.”

In the evening, I had to keep asking until my son eventually he told me, “Aaron also pulled my hair during music lesson.”

Mr. Money got so angry when I told him, he told me, “Why don’t you go to pull his hair tomorrow morning too? I only have a son, if he got pushed by the bully and if one of his bones got broken and become handicapped so how? You better go to solve this problem first thing in the morning!”

Early morning when I reached school, one of Mr. Money's friend told me the bully also always bullied his daughter until one day he gave the bully a warning sign. Then I asked one of my son’s classmates 24-siew mom, she told me easily and haughtily with the corner of her eye staring at me, (I am very sure her kid’s result must be a lot better than my son), “Yes, I saw Aaron grasped your son and then push him until he fell.”
Why no adult presented there helping to stop such bullying incident, was it all because the victim was not their daughter or son? Do these parents know that if my son ankles cap got broken, he won’t be able to walk for the rest of his life! Well obviously, it will never happen to their kids then!

I was told that this Aaron bullied almost everyone in the class, on April he pushed my son until his back got injured, I didn’t report to the school authority because I just wanted to make a peace talk to Aaron who knew that he can’t be easily brided.
I remember a day on May, I saw him waiting outside the school gate 30 minutes after school, I gave him a piece of cookie, “Aaron, you need aunty’s help? Where is your mom?”
“Don’t know! When I called her, she told me ‘fuck you’!”

When I asked around, more revealed, my son’s classmates would tell me, “Aaron would walk to Exxx’s seat and all a sudden gave him a pinch.”
“Aaron likes to pull Exxx’s hair.”
“Did teacher say anything?”
“Teacher just caressed Exxx’s hair.”

So luckily I was quite late when I reached my son’s school, I decided to see his discipline teacher. She told me education department won’t allow any parent to approach the bully, neither any parent is allowed to approach the bully’s parent. So I was glad that I didn’t manage to “talk” or “warn” the bully.

I was told by the assistant principal and the discipline teacher that sometimes bully might instead go back home telling his parents another way round saying that my son bullied him. So it happened that my husband friend’s daughter also got bullied by another bully-girl, after the bully-girl got scolded by the teacher, she would ask for sick leave to return home earlier, same to this boy, on Friday I went to school at 11:30am but found the bully-boy missing, they told me he left earlier due to stomach ach! (Right after got scolded by the assistant principal).
Bullies are definitely also the hoaxers!

Again, the 24-siew mom saw me; she asked me, “Are you working?” “No”
“Then you should pick up your son after school?” She said in a condemned manner.
I didn’t tell her that I do work, but working on my future work. Writing a book? Like the rest of people, they would hiss me off that I am just dreaming to become JK Rowling or discussing and laughing at my back with their friends together. I learned from different lessons to get smart with mean women!
“You know if anything happen to my son, my husband will divorce me, this is my only son do you know that?!” I enjoyed seeing snobbish women who didn’t know how to hide their obviously snobbish and snubbing facial expressions!

My son learns the bully’s trick in school, in school he never dared to retaliate physically (or else those witnessed classmates and parents would inform me how bloody naughty was my son) so at home he used the same tricks to bully his sister, “Revenge on your own sister? Stupid, why don’t you bite Aaron when you got bullied by him? Instead you just kept quiet and didn’t do anything!” Luckily in school, he didn’t bite or do anything to the bully in return, or else the biting mark evident would make my son an indirect culprit to grant those hoaxers' wish.

The school life is a mirror, when my son returns home it reflected, now I know why he enjoyed his kindergarten school life but no more his primary school life, his abrupt change of personality indirectly hurt me, he used to be very hard working boy, very keen in learning new things and meticulous in his writing and works, but since last year he started attending primary school he started becaming so lazy and messy. Mr. Money insisted his son to stay in Chinese primary school, we have been arguing the matter for a long time non-stop, but I am just a jobless taitai now, I have voice but can’t hear any coins jingling sound so he won it but he never realizes that his son’s English is getting poorer, BM is poor and Mandarin is also poor, will grow up same like both of his parents!

When one’s child got bullied in young age, parents should pay attention, but if bully matter persists on to secondary school, this shouldn’t be allowed, I myself witnessed five girls who got bullied during their teenage years all became abnormal and they all ended up fat due to taking depression medications and jobless at home, semi crazy and semi normal! Their moms told me the same thing and sourly they revealed to me, “When she returned home told me she was bullied by her classmates, I just ignored it. I thought it was just kids’ game. It’s all too late the minute I found out she already got crazy! She was one of the top student when she was young and when the bullied incidents happening, her school results was never good from that onwards!”

Hormone change happened on teenage years, parents should pay attention on their kids' mental well beings.
I got bullied when I was in primary school too, I was a very innocent girl, I needed friends, I was insecure and very immature compared to other kids. (On day my son’s classmate asked me, “Exxx gave me a new pen yesterday; my dad asked me to tell you should I take it?” So my son wanted friends by giving gift!). Like mommy like son, I can’t sleep tonight, you know why? Because I am really worried if Aaron’s dad will come tomorrow to school scolding my son, I don’t want my son grows up ending up in asylum or got locked up at home like those half crazy poor young ladies that I know of and all because their parents didn’t pay attention when they got bullied. Who can stand being bullied five days a week in school by their classmates or schoolmates and that went on forever for at least 4 to 5 years!
These mothers actually don’t like their Ba Po friends to know they have an abnormal daughter at home, but my last profession got me to encounter these seriously “mentally invalid” bullied victims. I learned that their parents have spent so much money to "cure" these victims but they never got improved, anti-depression medications actually made them fat, slow and lazy. My last advice to those victims is to go see a hynotize specialist.