You are not as lonely as most unhappily married women!
Written by Mrs. Money
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From what I observed since two decades ago, most Chinamen in our Chinamen infested state treat married women meanly as used cars; dub meanly to those unmarried spinsters as “old virgin maids” and used ruthlessly of those “used” spinsters to fulfill their fantasies and lust without any guilty and responsibility as they thought those “used girls” since were no more a virgin, after dumped them they even got hearts to blow their trumpets as "mermaids-mongers", “This girl is not fresh and that girl is not fresh!”
A while back my friend asked me if I could find a bachelor to introduce her spinster friend of almost 40 years old, I thought most probably this spinster was pressurized by her family members. Most old thinking parents and siblings might think that their responsibility would come to an end by getting rid of the only unwanted spinster in the family. In addition, the spinster often has to bear nasty rude remarks, defaming gossips amongst her circle and often she has to prevent some married men of no good intention trying to approach her.
Perhaps some spinsters would think of getting married due to they got a dream of marrying a rich prince charming, so they could quit their job burden by turning into a homemaker. Often this kind of dream actually easily rushed the spinsters into unhappy marriage or spiraled the spinsters into a conman trap, as there is a group of conmen specialized in targeting for rich spinsters, these conmen know the spinsters’ sweet dreams, they fulfilled these rich spinsters with temporary romance and once they got the money they would retreat without a trace.
Some rich spinsters would run into another kind of old-age advantage seeking bachelors who are also as desperate to get married either by a crook or hook, pretending that they are the ideal bachelor men, “Huh, what’s so big deal about Akung making a million ringgit within three years? Actually within a year, a project of mine could make more money than him.”
Never ever trusted a man’s word as long as he showed off himself so directly; never ever trusted a man’s word even if he used his weasel’s claim to impress, “The vehicles in my site used up RM8000 diesel each day!” A sharp listener wouldn’t immediately calculate that RM8000 times 30 days or wonder how many lorries and trucks the bluffer owed but she would smartly wonder how many vehicles in the man’s site actually belong to him entirely.
Actually in my experience, I realized there is a stereo-type rich men wives treated the single unmarried spinsters most meanly, they dressed up like old mates, never put on any make-up, very smart shrew businesswomen and they only bullied spinsters with less prestigious background than theirs! The stereo-type spinsters they targeted to haunt are usually around 30 over years old, usually pretty, tasteful enough to dress-up and put make-up nicely, extrovert, sweet but innocent. An example, I got a close friend when she just returned from England to help out in a hotel owed by her cousin, unfortunately a director’s wife kept giving her troubles and haunting after her until she quitted her job. In short, these abnormal rich men wives treated all pretty older age spinsters as their potential insecure marriage threatening enemies. I remember I was advised by such a stereo-type rich man’s wife of such illogical quote, “A girl would only become a perfect woman if she got married and had kids!”
If I get a chance to see her one of later days in another end of hemisphere, I would re-quote to her, “An unmarried girl is a perfect girl, because she is a virgin in any Chinaman’s eyes but married women are used cars to men!”; “A girl would only become a perfect woman if she got married to a rich man and had kids to make her standing more firmly in a rich family!” and “An imperfect unmarried girl would become a perfect woman after being married, it was all because she messed around with somebody’s husband, so she has to get married to her ‘Mister’ to make herself a perfect woman then!”
When a poor lady married into a rich family or to a wealthy man, conditionally the high life establishment could blind her to talk, act and think sensitively and sensually. She might even think that’s her good karma led her to end on such high life and she actually afraid to mix with poor women married to poor husbands, as she afraid that their poor karma might saturated her purity! Often their own feeling of superiority indirectly led them acting real arrogant to other less prestigious poorer married women and spinsters.
From time to time rich men wives would mix poor men wives or spinsters to proof that they are humble person, but the contrast would be instantly revealed from their little fussy actions and driven talks, they enjoyed such superiority moments to show off that they wouldn’t eat inferior foods given by poor men wives or use inferior goods introduced by poor men wives but left alone those sensitive poor men wives to feel embarrassments for them, actually the rich men wives got loaded only with monies but with limited knowledge about exotic fruits, foods and goods, as it they only know LV but don’t know what is Hermes’ birkin, they know what is blue berries but don’t know what is gooseberries and they think richer tin kosong tai tai words are more valuable than poor men knowledgeable wives or poorer spinsters. In short, poor tai tai and spinsters could reflect what rich tai tai's wanted contrast of their superiority complex satisfactory.
If you are coming to 30 or 40 years old but still a spinster, it is wiser you only go out with other spinsters and avoid any married women including your own family members. It is always wiser you stay alone or with other spinsters and the best is stay away from your family members and you should not go back home during any festival or New Year. Choose your holiday to visit foreign countries instead of balik kampong.
An example, there was a spinster who was well respected as a professional in an oil town but when she returned home she was merely an old-age spinster-daughter of somebody and poorest amongst all her professional siblings. She never realized her family low standing until her secondary school classmate came visiting her, her dad was talking to her ex-classmate and she would join in the conversation from time to time, soon her dad threw her a stern look then he hinted her to shut up. At first she was very angry as she thought she was much more educated and exposed than even her classmate or in some topics she was even better than her dad, she wondered why her dad treated her as an uneducated lady who should remain quiet when the men were in conversations?! Her educated dad Chinaman’s behaviors towards her actually hurt her and the incident let her doubt if it was because she was unmarried thus she was without a status in the family therefore she shouldn’t express her personal views.
Sometimes an unmarried older age lady shouldn’t have much communication with their own married “Chinawomen” thinking siblings, afraid that such stupid sister could turn into a horrible witch simply introducing you a “rich man" but actually a loser, a “no tail dog” that “it” would keep haunting after you until you got married to him.
"Chinawomen-thinking" siblings would prefer seeing you publicized your marriage news on a newspaper rather than seeing you being interviewed in newspapers. She would tell her sister-in-law in such a condemned tongue-in-cheek remark, “You know, my sister love to appear in the newspaper!” Indirectly, she wanted to tell her sister-in-law that she didn’t appreciate and like her old-age spinster-sister. Soon, even relatives from her sister’s husband dislike her and they began gossiping about her due to she was disapprove by her own sister.
Soon, you got married to the “no tail dog”, every "Chinaman and Chinawomen" in the family were very happy, but once after the dog revealed that he got no tail, soon they began reaching a stage of tongue-in-cheek episode to teach her own kids, “Hey kids, don’t marry a short wife or a short husband, or else for three generations you will get dwarf-like offspring!”, “Haha, the short man soon would lost his hair and grow his poke belly!” The witchy sibling rather gave your telephone number to a short man to set you up to get rid of you, but she wouldn’t allow her own kids to hook up a short lady or man!
Older age spinsters, you should never plan simply getting married off with those similar older-age bachelor men par up to you, as some of them might think that you were the one desperately wanting to get married, they would treat you cheap! Though they were as desperate too, yet these Chinamen always thought that they are evergreen and superior than girls as they can still produce babies when they are coming to 70 years old! Thus they wouldn’t respect you but rather they would end up using you to fulfill social expectation yet after married they themselves wouldn’t change much to their old bachelor style of life.
Spinsters, I witnessed so many of these cases and in some cases I stupidly poked in my nose to experience but I got only the nose full of ashes in returns (one of them even blurted out to me that he preferred women with 36DDs indirectly hinted me he wouldn’t be interest to go on with me, the other bachelor would tell me that I came too strong to him and many times when I mentioned to bachelors that I wanted to introduce them a good older-age girl, without hesitation they would make an excuse that the girl's not pretty….. if men not interested on an older-age girl, you would receive insults and humiliations so directly!): No matter you are still pretty or not pretty, modern up-to-date look or old mate look, when you come to 30 to 40, those professional monies and status loaded men with 40s WON'T take a second glance on you because if they want to get married in their 40s, they are already growing either wise or cunning, they will look up a package of young girls in 20s, must be young enough to help him bearing healthy offspring and EITHER should be pretty OR as almost qualified as them. In this kind of older-age bachelors' dictionary written:
Money barter-trading in with Youths.
Once these older-age men married with the package they "bought", they would proudly announced, "I am though fifty now, but I feel young! (due to I have a young wife .... silently he added to himself or his own relatives and close friends)
Another case of 30 to 40 spinsters if you wish to attract the age 40 over bachelor men to keep a second glance on you and then trailed after you, you have to think twice of unknown ill-fate could end up happened to next half of your life. They would end up calling you every night to tell you the benefits of getting married or half threat you if you don’t marry them, they would tell you that you might soon only ended marrying those old widowers or becoming someone’s mistresses.
I am very sure that these calculative useless bachelors are planing to share your salary for the future marriage life, though initially they would use weasel claims to tell you how able and wealthy they actually were. Even if you tell them that you don’t have much money, they wouldn’t believe what you revealed. They thought since you have worked for decades, if you didn’t leave much money at least you would leave some peanuts!
These older age bachelor men usually didn’t earn as much money and neither handsome, so they got to set trap to trick those professional spinsters, of course if the spinsters were pretty, it would be an extra bonus to them. Once these professional spinsters got married to this kind of semi-liars, the truth only would be revealed on the day after getting married. The feeling of such old age marriage with a poor thoughtless husband and further on with kids coming along would be like riding on the back of a tiger!
Usually this kind of husbands would still have their thick face on saying, “You know at this young age, my monies are all dumping into my business. How I can afford you a nice car, a nice house and lots of cash for you?” When you told him why other men a lot younger than him still run their business, gave much worried-free in financial promise, nice car and nice house to their wives, he would immediately retaliated, “Why don’t you go marrying Sudan of Brunei?” When you complained he hardly had time spent on you, he would reply, “Ok, I will quit my job then stay with you everyday at home, I don’t work, where I got money to feed the family?”
In short, rich, good looking, smart and eligible young men were all booked by as eligible and catchy girls even as early in their secondary school years, the left-over older smart rich older age bachelors for sure won’t look up an old age spinster to get married. Only those tongue-in-cheek stupid unable older-age bachelors would accept and take advantage of older age spinsters’ financial establishment and even without love to get married.
I would advise older age spinster girl of 30 to 40s looking up for eligible professional bachelor men of 50 to 60s, but they are rarely remained, actually they are kind of extinct. These men would be introvert, very able, good homemakers, have their own special interests and hobbies, they won’t get bored to join facebook or chat with strangers in MSM, they are as “perfect and thoughtful” as gays, they are very peculiar too in choosing a wife, they prefer to keep their bachelorhood if they never meet their dream girls, usually these eligible Chinese men with the best of western minds and eastern values are confined within whites. To able to encounter such an eligible man, you are like winning a lotto!
Old age spinsters, lastly I would advice you, don’t step in the wrong path and don’t end up riding on the back of a tiger. Every morning you get up, you tell yourself in front of the mirror, “I am perfect! (no matter you are virgin or not, as long as you are not married and not tied up with kids you will be a perfect lady and qualify to be married at any time once you meet your prince charming!), I have all the freedom to do my own things! (Don’t get too involved with your Chinamen and Chinawomen kindred and friends, avoid them with all kind of excuses, send them monies and gifts will often seal up their mouths) I am pretty and tasteful! (Make sure you learn how to put up good make-up and dress-up finely with variety of taste, love every parts of your body!) I am knowledgeable! (You must read a lot to past your free time, go movies, go out with other spinster friends, go traveling, enjoy exotic foods, pursue good hobbies and interests might even lead you to meet Mr. Old Right!)
You should buy yourself a reliable car and a house decorated it nicely, (better don’t feed pets as you have to travel frequently, as single you shouldn’t let yourself tie up by something alive like dogs, cats and plants, you avoid begging someone to take care of your pets and plants) make it your permanent home, if you really meet a Mr. Old Right, this house ended will give you an extra income from rental fees. So don’t keep dreaming of marrying a rich dream man, ended up you never purchase your own house instead wasting your earning lavished on foods, travellings and entertainments!
For those high income famous spinsters, you got to watch out for con-men either within our country or a white from western country, also you don’t lash out your personal problem to any stranger and unreliable friends. Often, we read the news of famous and rich actresses got cheated by Italian con-men; these were the good examples to caution you. Never ever go MSM to meet up strangers (some handsome white men photos are never the true identities), never ever simply trusted an “eligible” male friend bluffed and introduced by your friend, who was actually not your friend’s good friend but merely an associate, never ever entertain a stranger (syndicate con-men are usually handsome and good looking eligible) who suddenly come up to you bluffed that he was your sister’s classmate or your friend’s classmate.
Spinsters, if you can’t avoid Chinamen and Chinawomen’s tongue-in-cheek, get a western country PR and leave this country, dare to leave your business and sometimes being selfish is a MUST!
I admire you, unmarried ladies; I respect you, unmarried ladies. I would avoid to use the word spinster, it is the word defined and sounded segregation, it is very unfair, rude and inappropriate to describe those modern look, highly educated and well exposed older-age single unmarried ladies as spinsters (Chinamen would call spinsters as old virgin maids) Definitely modern single ladies, you have a better life, more freedom, more financial independence than many millions of unhappy married women!
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