Flat Chest Ladies Married at Your Own Risk!

….. if girls have flat chest (A or B cup), go for your PhDs!

Rare-species men use their brains instead of dicks to think, but they are almost in danger of extinction!

Life is too short to let other insensitive rich Chinawoman-tai tais insulted and hurt on us based on judgments they concluded on if a woman is married to a rich husband or not, or if let those sperm-filled men insulted us if we have flat chests to lower our self-esteem and confident, whereas in our own professional arena where people would look at us with different angle and full with respects.

Don’t waste time, to entertain and to listen to snobbish rich Chinawoman-tai tais without being paid or being acted as fake as them, as you don’t know when they snubbed and criticized behind you! You would be badly hurt once they accidentally leaked from their insensitive conversations!

Written by Mrs. Money

Generally all stereo-type men all over the world love and cherish voluptuous women, older generation Chinamen like voluptuous women even more because in olden days, poor Chinese girls were not well fed like these days; to ‘see’ a voluptuous woman amongst conservative poverty-infested societies was very hard because in olden days, girls never wore something revealing like our modern days. So unless those men in olden days got X-ray kind of eyes to enable them choosing a ‘36DD’ wife or else it was as hard as like winning a 4Ds. I read that in the conservative middle-east countries, men smart enough to learn where to look for beautiful girls from their own sisters’ circle of friends, or friends’ friends. Anyway, not just men love to talk about pretty girls, but girls also like to gossip those pretty girls too.

I have seemed those married women with big busts under my eagle eyes for at least more than three decades, I realize unless those women’s husbands were born as playboys, or else most of them would have such incredible ‘power’ to turn those naughty men to good homely men and I have a list of more than dozen pairs lovely couples under my blessings and admiring. If those men had to go out of town on business or playing golf, due to the chemical surged from ‘exciting things’ they encountered their familiar wives’ shadows would emerged on and off first on their subconscious minds, “YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY MIND!” Thus most of the time they would return home showered their wives and children enough loves; lavished their wives with expensive gifts and their wives never need to worry about not enough money to spend but merely worry about how to spend their money!

But I even witnessed more flat chest women who fell into bad fates marriage life, most men with flat chest wives always ended up alone by themselves without their wives, but rather drinking and chatting with friends in Kopitiam during the evenings or playing majong with their friends during weekends. The temporary absent from home perhaps could also temporary eliminate their ugly flat-chest naked wives in their minds, they would hardly bring their wives for travelling, as they prefer to forget their ugly flat-chest naked wives for a longer period, although they never looked for a voluptuous prostitute to replace their ugly naked flat chest wives they rather enjoyed those pretty young girls walking on the street with pretty faces on, or occasionally with “their eyes enjoying eating ice-cream. “ Their frustrated silent angry wives usually have to juggle the whole household duties worst with limited money provided to meet monthly due, and they never expected their husbands would give them a hand! Flat chest women would pray every day saying thank you Jesus as long as their husbands don’t jump onto a bed with ‘bigger boobs’ women!

A decade ago, one day I was invited for lunch by an old uncle (old family friend), with his overseas educated son and another businessman. This Foo Chow Chinaman is an arrogant man, he talked loud, bullshit loud, and he could only talked in this bossy manner with the people who were less wealthy than him!

“Once I sell off all these apartments, there will be more than 100 million ringgit in my account again, I can talk loud again!” All because he lost too much on late 90s stock market, that’s why he couldn’t talk loud!

He then took a look at me even without directly fallen on my chest, but just with his X-ray eyes he indirectly said, “Do you notice that no matter how pretty and educated the girl is, but if she is not voluptuous, it’s hard for her to find a husband? ….. Usually even if the girl is as ugly as the Choo Bar Chea’s Biu Mei (Pig’s cousin) but if she has large boobs, she can easily find a husband!” I agreed silently, yes sir you are damn right, I notice all bachelor men got X-ray eyes when they looked at my chest! I even got such experience of a male professional friend who directly hinted me he was only interested of a girl who has 36DD.

Wise enough, I wouldn’t argue with an old businessman who ate more salt than my rice, I saluted him as he was polite enough, gave me respect enough in his Chinaman’s standard to reveal his thought in such a good mannerism. Many years later, I heard that he has one of the first PhD daughters in an oil town. In another word, I could hear the silent conversation from him now, if girls have flat chest, go for your PhDs!

Then he turned to ask my old uncle’s bachelor son, ‘Hi … how about you, do you prefer a girlfriend with big boot more than big brainy one?’

My old uncle’s son surprised him by telling him, ‘I prefer brainy girl!’ That reply wisely stopped the ‘indecent forum’ immediately!

After we left the lunch table, the old uncle gave his remark in the car, “Gee, this man has no cultivation!”

I told the old uncle, “Uncle, if the streets are filled up with cultivated men who mind more on brainy girls, then I wouldn’t have waited 30ish years without any boyfriend!” I always thankful my uncle’s son who stood on my side on such an occasion, many years later I even indirect helped the old uncle to ‘trap’ a daughter-in-law for his son, although the old uncle never realized I understood the old wolf game that he was playing and I merely tangoed along with them! Eventually I happily accepted a limited free wedding meal!

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Men and women relationship is almost like a pendulum, if the men treated their wives good and kind, they would treat their husbands as equally good or even better. Our generation is in the cross-road between old and modern, those women who depend on their husbands to provide them social status, money and respects, they would never agree a woman saying something bad about her husband, old fashion China-women would scold her daughter or sister, “Do you know that you are smearing own shits on your face!”

Well mom or big sister, I truly don’t know! I only know that in Kopitiam when I was always as curious enough to turn back my head looking at those curious onlookers, I could always see those strangers embarrassedly stopped talking immediately, because they were making remarks regarding how much taller I was to my husband. I felt it was very degrading and bitter for me.

I have no such experience yet with a man emerged in my life that could make me feel secure, give me more money than I could earn myself, make me feel settled, give me better standard of living, provide me more comfortable life, make me feel to brag about him, to make me feel good and proud to be with him. I only know that since I got married, my career, reputation and fame were a yesterday dreams, I have to work like hell as though an Indo-maid, from mopping the floor to weeding the garden, I got up every day from 6 and only could sleep after midnight, yet I couldn’t even earn my monthly household allowance from a husband more than half of my old days monthly professional fees, and worst still I am placed in such a marriage graveyard that gradually deteriorated my self-esteem, secure, respect, dignity and pride without any encouragement and intellectual excitement but constantly receiving snubs from even strangers!

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When I worked in the Oil City, there was a category of tai tais whom I would avoid as though they were snakes: They were those conservative Chinawomen-rich tai tais, they have a sick stereo-type symptom, they would even avoid to mention even a name of a tai tai who was a lot richer than their husbands, whenever they see another tai tais are as equally rich as their own husbands, they wouldn’t be happy, bad mouthing soon began, worst I had witnessed how they bullied another poorer tai tais, they would stab from behind of those poor acquainted tai tais, rated them as no taste, no par and no class, in short they would judge a woman by how rich the husband she married to, the house she stays in, the car she drives, how generous the woman’s husband treats her, the accessories she wears and carries. In short, only women with filthy rich husbands, who were faithful and generous to them would earn the great admirations and respects and waive from harsh criticisms from this kind of snobbish tai tais. Rich tai tais consistently need someone to flatter them that they were rich, they were never happy to hear from another tai tai mentioning another unknown nova super rich figure (whose name hasn’t appear yet on the newspaper yet) and they love to hear insincere peoples’ flattered, paid special attention and respect.

For unexposed snobbish mean tai tais, good fashion sense means all branded brands shown on the surface. Good taste and good color combination mean everything has to fall into perfectly, Monday on brown branded shoes, baige branded handbag, brown St. Michael bra and panties, gold Rolex, brown dress and famous rich tai tai curls on head, gold car to attend a breakfast meet in an hotel. Tuesday on white shoes, Omega, white panties and bra, white handbag, white shirt, white cap, white convertible before embarking for golf game. Weekend moves to penthouses where partition wall was removed to become the one and only on the pinnacle of a posh condominium.

Even high income professional women with flat chests could never par up with these rich tai tais’ ‘voluptuous’ high life, neither they would talk the same socialized language because the rich tai tais although might help their husbands in their office but they never helped their husbands to get contracts from the dogs eat dogs business world. And usually the Chinawomen would sarcastically dub those successful professional women as “Female strong people” (Amazon or Virago). For most professional women, limited pairs of shoe, ear rings, sandals and handbags for them most probably would be used until torn before replacing a new one and even though those branded cheap-sales dresses might get changed frequently.

 

Most rich tai tais with caring and thoughtful rich husbands all have good bodies, and these tai tais would love to invite their as equally rich friends for a swim on their pools, that’s the time they could flaunt their boobs, good body and their branded swimming suits (most of the time they didn’t buy branded dresses because name-brands embroidered only behind the collars! Except swimming suits) In contrast to those flat chest, mostly poor, fat tai tais with poor mean husbands would struggle to fill their tummies with starch instead of expensive healthy foods! I think most hard-earn professional women who didn’t get married to a rich husband know my language very well!

Most career women in Asian countries without good background were mainly claimed authorities on their professional own rights and they were also mostly surviving spinster-business women amongst jungles of wild animals; they learned to do business with most kinds of women, what kind of women they should try to avoid or befriended. They could be friends with rich or poor tai tais, they would never get jealous of rich tai tais neither would they snubbed at poor tai tais. BUT life change now for those professional women when they didn’t choose a right husband, and thus became a nobody‘s no money tai tai, even though they still carry their friendly approached to all kind of tai tais, but there would be always a “cultural shock” for them, as rich tai tais are mostly very fake …. Most probably they learned it from their par-up rich husbands!

Everybody has a border line that someone shouldn’t cross to offense, when a tai tai rekindled old childhood friendship or with such a ‘long time no see’ newly acquainted tai tai from out of town, they have to learn respecting their individual’s past, present and future. One of them shouldn’t ignorantly without having any knowledge of the other opponent’s past profile and profession compared but judged merely just based on her current outlook. If an ignorant snobbish tai tai merely judged on another poor tai tai based on her past business and profession which never could earn as much as her husband’s successful half billion gross yearly business, snubbed on the poor tai tai’s current life styles and outfits, thus mindlessly crossed, snubbed and insulted the poor tai tai through accidental verbal leaks by making indirect remarks and hints that the poor tai tai no good taste, no good styles and not good in color coordination etc. Imagine if such poor tai tai before marrying her husband she was once a very well-known for her good taste, artistic, stylizing that also par with her artiste professional image in her arena, how this poor tai tai would get hurt badly?

The poor but sharp tai tai could even guess from such a simple mindset of Chinawoman that due to cheap-sales dresses she wore, and these old outfits usually would match with the one and the only unmatched floral handbag and brown shoes or sandals that she possessed, of course she wouldn’t be able to par up with rich friends of hers who live in new houses, drive beautiful new car, wear new dresses with matched shoes, ornaments, branded handbag, with thoughtful and caring rich husbands! Only God knows during the poor tai tai for the past 10 year marriage life, she never even has an extravagant RM1000 to buy dress or shoes to fill up my wardrobe which those rich tai tais would be able to do it frequently.

USEFUL NOTES TO MOTHERS:

For young girl about 4 -5 years old prepare beef essence (cut beef into slices, steam to collect the essence) for them every monthly, they will have voluptuous body when they grow up. Also continuously give them steaks and beef soup every monthly during their grown up years.

For boys to let them grow taller, prepare them peanut roots and stems meat soup. And also basil roots meat soup. (Boil for at least two to 4 hours)

Beef is expensive and was very expensive and rare, in my memory of my entire childhood days, not even up to 5 times my mom preparing beef soup!

WHITE HAIR TAI TAI
When I Licked My New Wound, I Could Still Feel the Pains of My Old Wounds

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malayan_Emergency

http://www.recom.org/forum/archive/index.php/t-1638.html

Note:

If one of their family members got killed or hurt by them (I knew one of my relative got injured when a bullet hit his ball, the rest of the story you can imagine yourself!) Let's see they could be tongue-in-cheek again! I called that Chinese murdered Chinese in that era, I was barely a very young girl living in daily fear that my dad could get killed at any minute, he was threatened to be "murdered" because he was "with the govenment"! That's why when I grew up, the minute I got chance I joined in MCD to fight of my phobia of guns and army uniforms.

Written by Mrs. Money

She changed my whole scope of viewing rich tai tais as one of the respective and admirable figures during my unmarried years, she is still a nightmare to me from time to time and a permanent scar remained in my memories, to encounter her was a great regret in my highlight years of my limited career life. I met the white hair tai tai when I first started to set up my business, as a freshly graduate returned from a certain nation probably made her thought that I was a Marxist like her so she wanted to help me, but later perhaps when she realized that she was wrong she revenged.

She couldn’t get a richer tai tai than her to listen for straight two hours of her glory years in jungles revolting for Marxist reign, so almost everyday she would look up for me expecting me to be her keen audience, sometimes she got hypnotised by her same old jungle stories and got in trance by bluffing, “Hey, we merely compromising with the authority, we actually never surrender. If we had won the revolution, today we would be the dignitaries and you civilians ….” or she revealed a chilling cruelness of her deed without any conscience, “In the jungle if I caught those couples falling in love, I would separate them by sending them to different divisions, some of the girls got crazy, I had to order them lock up in cages…..”

For years I questioned myself if such revolt victims died under a psychopath mania’s act within their own camp under such situation, they would died forever in anguish and the indirect murderers could still live on these days as successful businessmen or businesswomen and walking on the street without feeling guilty, they would use the excuse of what they did was all aimed for the success of their revolution.

I was a very innocent girl, only after I experienced her cold hearted trouble makings, I avoided her by moving and staying far away from her but she could haunt after me in an extend by deliberately approaching those she knew that they were my associates. At first she went to visit my part time staff to defame and make stories for two straight hours in her office and then she arranged to play golf to a friend of mine by telling her how much I love married men which indirectly caused me to almost become a rape case victim.

The time I met white hair tai tai, she initially got two good tai tai friends as they all were comrades once. Then I started to keep quiet listening her defamation of her friend tai tai T and following that she began to attack her friend tai tai V. I realized why she attacked tai tai T first now, because her hubby is less successful but tai tai V hubby is as equally wealthy as her hubby.

She is a fame of Marxist, but I would never understand why she is a golfer with her gang of mostly datins and despite her deliberately dress up like an old grandma yet her actions proofs that she loves many things capitalist did and practiced. She would never say a single bad word of any of those tai tais with richer and much more famous husbands than hers, yet she made all sort of defamations against other poorer tai tais and made those poor helpless without much background young girls she encountered to go down drain.

One of white hair tai tai young friend L who always prepared ginseng chicken soup for her, but ruthless psycho white hair tai tai effective gossiped to her husband to cause her divorce, she ended to become somebody second mistress. When I saw what had happened to this poor young lady L then I realized the white hair tai tai’s evilness but my action to keep her out of my sight and way was still a beat too late for me, very soon I became her next target, it’s my turn to be tortured by her, out of a blue one day my newest business rival showed up in my office accusing that I wanted to bomb their business which I never or even ever would use such unrelated word in my entire conversation vocabulary.

This unexpected threat from one of the most notorious oil town triad member triggered my depression from that day onwards, the white hair tai tai by then tongue-in-cheek asked me, “Why you don’t want to admit you said it?”
“Hey! I never ever say such silly thing of wanting to bomb some strangers’ business.”
“You know something I don’t like about you is: You always want to be a winner, you are not humble, you are arrogant; you never admit what you did was wrong.”
“Hey! I never ever say such silly thing ……”
“Look at you, what you did wrong you should be brave enough to admit.”

After two hours of unexpected insulting, humiliating and wrongful accusations by locking in white hair tai tai office alone by myself to face the white hair tai tai, two strange rascals and notorious gangster to attack me and forcing me to admit my wrong doing of something I never did yet was not sufficient for white hair tai tai, she wanted me to get locked up eventually in Kuching 7th mile asylum! Luckily I just got locked up in Mt. E stress ward when I got pregnant with my first child.

They promised me it was a parley, insisting I just need to assure them I didn’t say it, who knew that was just a deepest gorge that they planed to throw me in. They all didn’t even give me a minute to clarify my standing, but prosecuted me in the very first minute instead. When I didn’t want to comply as I really never did it, in contrary they began deliberately to twist up more stories aiming to further on pressing me. I never submitted their unlawful and inhuman ways of judging me so I just sealed myself watching them like crowns acting their ways through and left the scene at last like satisfied wolves; they probably had checked my background knew that I didn’t have any powerful backup, that’s why they were so unreasonable to me.

For weeks I was crying hysterically, white hair tai tai could chuckle in a cold heart manner and took her every chance to approach me in her previous jungle style of prosecution, Why you don’t want to admit you said it?”
“Hey! I never ever say such silly thing of wanting to bomb some strangers’ business.”
“You know something I don’t like about you is: You always want to be a winner, you are not humble, you are arrogant; you never admit what you did was wrong.”
“Hey! I never ever say such silly thing ……”
“Look at you, what you did wrong you should be brave enough to admit.”

She was someone I trusted so much, once I even called her as a god mom, so imagine that when something I didn’t do, but somebody you trusted the most insisted saying “YOU DID IT, PLEASE ADMIT IT!”

Like a raping case victim, smart enough knowing she was alone facing a group of wolves that wanted her body, if she further on struggled that would cause her a life.

Only God knows that if I got caught unexpected again, lawfully this time but still with uncivilized interrogations and made up accusations insisted me to admit, I would be much more experienced. I know now why those out-of-mind professional syndicate or authority bullies could kill a stubborn not guilty poor victim later by tossed him out of the window

Since the incident, for months I lived in a torment, only God knew why I had to walk through some darkest days and carried on years like that. One morning, I had a nightmare: I dreamed I was around a pile of dirty clothes, suddenly a beetle appeared, then it turned into a tortoise, the tortoise started to chase after me (I don’t understand why I was afraid of a tortoise in my dream) I began to run, while running it attacked and bit my right leg little toe and it ended bleeding profusely, and I again trying to escape from its attack, all a sudden the tortoise turned into a very old lady devil face, then I saw her nails were so long, she began to use her nail to attack my face, I screamed at I looked into her eye and her grey pupils.

Then I woke up immediately due to the scream, I ended calling and crying hysterically to my mom at 5 in the morning, “Mom, those grey pupil eyes are the white hair tai tai’s….”
“Now, girl cool down, God must be hinting you something, now you have confirmed she is the devil to cause all those pains.”

I decided to move out of white hair tai tai' s reach since that nightmare, actually it was my only time ghost dream in my life up to this date.

3 years later in an occasion I again met that young ex friend L of white hair tai tai, she by then worked very well with her “mister” and her kids were doing very well in studies as well. Then she revealed to me, “Hey, remember once you told white tai tai a man that you were interested?”
“Ya, what happen?”
“You remember she pretended to ask you for the telephone contact of the man’s uncle?”
“Ya, what happen then?”
“You know what white hair tai tai did to you?”
“What?”
“One day she popped in my office telling me that she would never let you live a good life, she said she had just called the man’s uncle.”
“Thanks for telling me that, why didn’t you tell me earlier instead of making me waiting and wasting my time for such stupid man for years?”
“You know I didn’t like to gossip, but after sometimes I felt what white hair tai tai did to us were too much, but I didn’t know how to get hold of you. Other wise I would have tell you earlier. Also she even told me when you first met her that if she didn’t keep an eye on you, you could steal her husband one of these days.”
“BLOODY HELL WITCH, why you didn’t tell me this? I shouldn’t befriend with her if I ever knew she could make such kind of disrespectful remark on me.”
“Hmm, sorry I didn’t know you much that time.”
BLOODY HELL, interested in her old husband or somebody’s husband? The bloody hell dirty idea never came across my mind but she could use her dirty mouth to degrade and pollute me. I respected her before now I realised she was not worth to be respected!

Six month after such truths revealed I met my husband, once bitten by snake, twice shy and I married without even notifying my parents.

Another 3 years later, when my first son was born. Someone who was once the white hair tai tai comrade told my sister, “That white hair lady’s husband got a mistress in our neighbouring state with a teenage son already.”

I took out my fingers and counted, that’s exactly time when she did all the shits to me. If her hubby went on having mistress why she picked on me to bully? She should improve her grandma look rather than attacking me, what were the benefits she got if I really ended on the asylum? I don’t trust rich tai tais much these days, I can all blame on this white hair bitch!

These days I always saw her grandma “kind smiling” face in newspapers as one of the board of directors in a private school, she smartly chose to bully her victims who had no power to challenge her wealth, social status and hypocrite acts.

Poor Teachers and Mean Tai Tais

Written by Mrs. Money

Gift or Earthworm?

When I first moved to C city, I turned to a local ex-CEO old tai tai for an opinion of should I give Chinese New Year gifts to my kids’ school teachers. She replied in a hiss, “No. No need. No, I never heard of such practice in C city. No, there is no such custom here. I only heard of people giving gifts to managers, like my husband when he was a CEO, many people would give him gifts during Chinese New Year, we got so much gifts that I got no place to store them! No need, no need to give gift to teachers, they are well paid these days…….” (“If you give those gifts to those teachers, you better give those gifts to me!” I thought I heard that silent hint from her)

I quietly hissed, “Hi dub! My parents were both teachers.” No wonder they didn’t receive much gifts during Chinese New Year, “poor dad and mom and poor Malaysian teachers!”

My heart just didn’t feel right, so I turned my poor dad for a different opinion, he advised, “Girl, most people used a gift as an earthworm, a hook for a bigger fish. But you shouldn’t follow those fishermen, you give gifts to teachers as your respect and token for their hard work and professional dedications.”

When I worked in Brunei for a year, for only a Christmas but I received the gifts more than 15 years I worked in Malaysia! Not many teachers would encourage their kids to become teachers, but most doctors’ kids ended up as doctors!

Cheap or Friendship?

There was once a very dedicated piano teacher, who always would give extra coaching to her students without asking for extra professional charges during exam eve, some students appreciated her silently but some really took her for granted. Many years later after her mental and physical health both got deteriorated after prolong abused due to overwork, she finally called for a quit.

She was an overseas graduated and a trained piano teacher, with rare Russian technique in hand, many pianists could play but couldn’t teach, however many local piano teachers would choose to attack her teaching and techniques innocently to show that theirs’ are much superior, let those tongue in cheek attacks, however the outstanding exam results of her students were the solid proving bass if she was really good or not; her diploma students were sole survivals under some toughest examiners or after her grade 8 exam student who got nominated by examiners to study in one of any four music institutions under ABRSM international scholarship, those rogue tongues were temporary sealed.

Border town civilians developed short memory and became realistic, visitors come and go in all seasons. Soon older and experienced teachers became passing fancies, young graduates freshly returned from overseas could demand more in their professional fees without much consideration for poorer students.

So one day this piano teacher eavesdropped such conversation, “Miss New is very expensive, but Miss Old is cheap….”

"Miss Old?" Am I really cheap? Or these parents simply never understood my extension of friendships to them thus I didn’t charge them as I should supposedly do.
“Look dub! I am not that cheap as you thought of but because I was treating you as one of my very good friends! I can command my professional fees as one of the highest in state, because I have to babysit your lazy and imperfect ear kids for like 12 to 16 hours a day before exam eve for at least two week to a month. For the whole past 11 months your kids were telling you lies actually they didn’t practise much and you expected your kids to pass with a distinction within or less than a month time practise and you all could still bargain for less practising hours from me. If I could spend my time to stay with your kids instead of partying, why you didn’t cooperate with me? Can you afford to pay me if I charge RM200 per hour for babysitting your kids?”

During music exam eve, “Miss Old” had “to beg” and “threat” some parents to send their "babies" to practise piano in her music school, many parents thought piano is easy due to lots of girls didn’t study well they all became piano teachers!

So if some of those kids were doing very well in school, some mean tai tais would hiss to “Miss Old”, “Aye, easy huh, if you are a good teacher, my kids sure would pass.”
“Dub! Piano needs coordination of dexterities from both mental and physical, it needs to develop reflect action but for school exam, students got time to ponder and recall over answers!”

In short, they would put study as No.1, school band No. 2….. but piano as No. Last importance.

So after the exam was over, mean tai tai called, “How much my kids got?”
“Everybody passed” Miss Old piano teacher hissed in a relief.
“How much my kids scored?”
“1XX and 1XD.”
“Why so low?”
“How much do you want?” (Note: The overall passing rate of this particular music exam for the whole town was less than 50%)
“How much so and so scored?”
“Oh XYZ got a Merit.”
There was a silent
“Ok. Ok”

“Miss Old” never heard a thank you from the mean tai tai.

With her ass working off and after such exam she would get sick on and off for few months due to lack of rest; instead on and off she would hear gossips of how such mean tai tai would try to say something defaming her music school. Mean tai tai would rather find faults to blame on teachers but give excuses for her kids’ laziness, she never realized her kids were both telling her lies due to her strictness and over controlled.

The latest gossip that "Miss Old" heard was one of the mean tai tai's daughters started to date a boy out of her knowledge. Once mean tai tai almost told all her friends, “I won’t let my daughters date in high school years, I told them I would follow them like a shadow if I ever discover that!”

Threat From Mean Tai Tai

This tai tai was imported from an orchid island, she was not that educated but her hubby is a highly demanded professional in our state.

Usually when a less educated girl married to a highly educated smart hubby, she got lots of stress. She is worried if her kids are stupid then her hubby or friends might say, “Hi, that’s your stupid gene.” So she would rather work her ass off and get overnervous to monitor her kids’ homework to make sure that they are No.1 in everything. When her kids couldn't get No.1 in everything she would blame the faults on others or teachers. (sounded nicer to explain to her hubby in this manner) She rather would say, “Hi, I was from a poor family thus I didn’t get a chance to further study, actually I am a very smart girl!”

What happened was this mean tai tai sent her kids to a private school, she would force them to study overnight without sleeping during eve of any school exams thus they both were top students.

One day she found out one of her kid’s subject was marked way bellowing than her other subjects. She approached and questioned the teacher who taught the particular subject, the teacher replied, “Sorry, that’s the standard, sorry I can’t mark it higher.”
“How can? All the rest of my kid’s subjects were over 90s.”
“Sorry, I can’t give it higher, that’s the standard.”

So this mean tai tai got really mad after unsuccessful bargaining, she went to see the principal, demanded him, “You change this teacher or my kids quit this school!”

Eventually the bitchy tai tai won and she could still bragging to her friends about her "wonderful" deed.

Most tai tais could act so meanly, indirectly it was caused by the silence of their hubbies but mistranslated by their wives as the green light to go ahead to treat people meanly. Many classmates of her kids hated her, once they told their piano teacher angrily, “She thinks only her kids are smart, we are all stupid!”

FRIENDSHIPS BETWEEN TAI TAIS
We Can Pull a Cat’s Tail from Time to Time but never to its’ Whisker!

Written by Mrs. Money

What is called friendships?

A decade ago before Money tai tai got married, she got bitten many times by an oil town some most notorious tai tais, after that she developed herself a “taitaiproof” shell and she only began to lose a bit since she got married and “migrated” to C city.

Money tai tai started dubbing herself such a very secular title when she turned jobless, since then she needed to readjust her new tai tais’ life style, very soon she realized that she was a real loser in dabbling amongst tai tais, she ends up rather sweating and tanning under the hot intense equatorial sun amongst plants.

Perhaps imitating their counterpart businessman-husbands, many tai tais would barter-trade friendships with mutual benefits; to elevate their confidents and status they would only befriend truly with other richer and more powerful tai tais.

So if a tai tai with fading prestigious status but she could still tango amongst the meanest elite tai tais club at ease, she should have extra ordinary abilities, PR skills and talents, either in bad way or good way or simply act as a chameleon who would come up to an extend for her own benefits but deliberately or indirectly hurting other simple minded young tai tais.

Watch out for such chameleon who initially would approach and probe an approachable tai tai’s life in a very friendly and helpful ways to acquire such strangers’ private and confidential information, the chameleon would then feed back to her elite tai tai friends “to gossip until qualifying” to join their elite tai tais group, or else such loser would end up abused like a toy rat by them. Nobody enjoys their private life becomes an open book to strangers, but such chameleon is a great entertaining broadcaster, and to her benefactors the chameleon could still act like a pity victim who got bullied by their toy rat!

Another similar characteristic of these mean rich tai tais: They would never say a single bad word or remark of their superior richer tai tais but would say only mean things to those as equally rich and less rich ones.



Good friend Or Secret Enemy?

Juicy story began when the ever friendly and helpful BB tai tai opened her ears to listen her new friend tai tai A’s problems, but BB tai tai was not able to discrete the private and confidential matters, neither she chose to help genuinely nor “store P & C in her closet”, instead she went on “broadcasting” tai tai A’s private matters to her best friend tai tai B. Tai Tai B got another best friend tai tai C and at the end everyone knew tai tai A's in and out.

Actually BB Tai Tai’s friends from A to Z hardly met and knew each others, but thanks to her “broadcast” seemingly friends A to Z all knew each others’ private businesses here and there and in and out. Life went on peacefully for a dormant volcano when its' lava didn’t leak.

Tai tai A usually listened to BB Tai Tai’s “gossips” from B to Z but dumped those “rubbish” at once because she was always busy her minds to restart her second career in her mid life.

Tai tai B is an older woman who married a very rich established husband, she never needs to worry her slippery tongue or tongue-in-cheek which might one day resulting a slap on her cheek. She is in nature a very helpful and kind tai tai, a great entertainer and humorous in tongue-in-cheek ways, she loves to pull those BB Tai Tai friends’ tails time to time “if she thought” they treated BB Tai Tai meanly, but this time story went on a bit differently …. Tai tai B went on pulling tai tai A’s whisker! Tai tai A somehow reserved her educated, polite and quiet composure without retaliating on scene when her whisker got pull with no reason.

What had happened was recently tai tai A sold her business and BB Tai Tai was the only good friend who knew A’s transactions in and out. Tai tai A discovered BB Tai Tai betrayal as a trusted friend during a breakfast meet when she and tai tai Z exchanged their pleasantry, then tai tai A mentioned to tai tai Z that she already sold her business but was making a lost in her investing assets and renovation, unexpected tai tai B interrupted promptly, rudely and meanly in a very hostile way to tai tai A, “You stayed there, ate there and used the venue for ten over years, you shouldn’t say …. !!!” Tai Tai A's minds was not ready for fighting with a bitch yet when there were people owed her debts which she tried to twist her brain looking for money needed to settle her outstanding credit cards. Tai Tai A “hibernated” such unexpected insult for 3 nights, upon woke up, she got wiser when she recalled those rude remarks tai tai B tried to mock her, actually she thought she should forgive those tai tais as she was not that kind of small hearted tai tai, but she felt if her tail was being pull she could still say meow a bit louder to them, but this time actually someone whom she didn’t know well came along to pull her whisker, she thought that was quite close to her mouth, thus she thought of given a hiss if not a bite.

Tai tai A then questioned herself, “I encountered or ate with tai tai B merely less than 10 times, I didn’t even have her phone contact (Simple: that mean I am not her friend or even associate) why tai tai B got so angry, told me off and acted so hostile towards me upon hearing my conversations related to my sold business, I am very curious why she could retaliate me without losing a single beat?” “I was talking to tai tai Z and actually my business transaction was none of tai tai B business, why she eavesdropped, responded and interrupted heatedly immediately?” “How tai tai B knew how many years I stayed in an O city before I move to C city?” “How tai tai B even knew where I stayed in O city which I kept P & C for 10 over years from most people?” and finally, “Who told tai tai B all about my private business?”

Then tai tai A further on analyzed and speculated why and what BB tai tai and tai tai B could have been gossiping behind her, tai tai A suspected that BB Tai Tai went on asking her main benefactor tai tai B’s opinion, “Hey! Tai tai A sold her business recently for 5K, do you think her business worth that much?” Then the details of tai tai A was given to tai tai B by BB Tai Tai for “evaluation” and at the end they made their conclusions that tai tai A business actually worth a lot less than it deserved. Then BB tai tai complained to tai tai B, “Huh, now she acted proudly like a millionaire and hardly called me out!”
Tai tai B replied, “Big deal?” Let me told her off one of these days if I got chance, she silently decided.

After this incident, tai tai A got so depressed, disappointed and mad, she consulted her wise buddy and spitted out her angers, her wise buddy told her, “Hi, you eating ang mo shits girl, you are too blunt and innocent, you are just not subtle and hypocrite enough to tango with local tai tais. I think you probably were talking too much about yourselves to that BB bitch, so she went on gossiped to those as equally bitchy snobbish friends of hers. They all think now that you are nobody thus they dared to create and make all sorts of bad remarks behind you and dared to challenge in front of you. If you are a Datin or Puan Seri now or your hubby is richer than that tai tai B’s, I bet none of those busy bodies would dare to bully or talk to you in disrespect manner, especially you don’t know that tai tai B so well.”

Tai tai A’s cousin who is though 10 years younger than her, but she is much streetwise, she advised, “If I met a person and she keep telling me other's people stuff, I'll watch out of her because I'll think with other people she might talk about me too. So, I share minimum information about me with her.. I can still hang out, just that my topic will not be about me...”

Conclusion

Friendships need mutual respect amongst each others, I would treat no matter poor and rich in such manner with genuine hearts if they don't do me harms, those who hurt me before I will take a step away from them, as a toy rat soon I will be treated as a passing fancy for mean tai tais!